My parents always talk about my shortcomings in front of outsiders. I'm disgusted. What should I do?

I don't know the relationship between people and their parents. Some people's parents like themselves very much and are proud of themselves. They think their children are the best in the world and often praise them in front of outsiders. But some people's parents are very direct and often talk about your shortcomings in front of outsiders. What should you do at this time?

How can I put it? That's what people do. Others say that you are happy, and others say that you have shortcomings and you are definitely unhappy. However, as a junior, you can't have a direct conflict with your parents, let alone refute it in front of outsiders. This will only show that you are heartless and uneducated.

In my opinion, first of all, you should learn to communicate with your parents and tell them that you have self-esteem, so that they will lose face in front of outsiders. Everyone has his own shortcomings and shortcomings. As parents, they should face up to their children's shortcomings, instead of treating them as jokes after a meal, which is harmful to their physical and mental development.

Sometimes, when our parents treat us like this, we will feel that our parents don't love us, otherwise, how could we have the heart to hurt us like this? Therefore, when you are disgusted with this phenomenon, you should take the initiative to communicate with your parents and tell them that it will hurt you. If your parents love you, it won't happen again.

Some people may say that your parents will say your shortcomings in front of outsiders because you are not perfect, and even say that you have too many shortcomings. Therefore, while you are disgusted, you should also try to correct your shortcomings and deficiencies, parents! Everyone is vain and likes to compare their children with others' children. If one day they find that their children have become perfect and have no so many shortcomings, they will talk less and praise you in front of outsiders at any time.

Even if you are disgusted, keep calm, listen to her talk about your shortcomings, and then correct them. If one day you correct these shortcomings, your parents will have nothing to say!