Why does my boyfriend sometimes not want to carry my bag?

If he really loves you, he won't do this to you. Don't speak out of turn, but he will speak in a calm tone. If you are always fierce, it means that he doesn't respect you, or is male chauvinism. If it is a male chauvinist man, it will be very hard for the woman to live together in the future. After he treats you like this, even if you get married, your husband's family will not be kind to you, and may even look down on you. Because your husband's family's attitude towards you stems from the attitude of the man who married you. If your man has a bad attitude towards you, so will your husband's family. If your man treats you well, your husband's family will treat you well for your man's sake. So you have to think it over for yourself. It is very disrespectful for him to treat you like this. Think about what outsiders will think of you when they see you. People won't say you deserve sympathy, but only in the back.