In the relationship between men and women, do you still remember what first love is like?

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Gu Shige once wrote in "First Love": ?I think I will never be able to fall in love with anyone else in this life. It's not that they are bad or that you are too good, it's just that Because my heart only recognizes you. It only remembers your quiet eyes and the curvature of your mouth. Even if you get older, it will not be blurry at all. ?

First love is the most ignorant emotion in everyone’s heart, and it is also the most sincere emotion. It is pure and does not contain any impurities.

Everyone has a first love, which will be unforgettable for a lifetime. At that ignorant age, first love entrusted us with infinite beautiful longings. It was a love that had nothing to do with the secular world, ending in the years and hidden in our lips.

The most beautiful years in life are probably the time spent in first love.

Two people are simple, they love and appreciate each other, they are not sad about the passage of youth, they just look forward to waiting for each other.

The love at that time was simple, evocative, and could be called a pure spiritual love.

That feeling is when we meet each other, you are panicked, and I am heart-beating.

First love is always a beautiful thing that remains in people’s hearts. The reason why it is never forgotten is that it is an innocent time that can never be taken back in the rest of life.

The memory of first love left at that ignorant age can never be forgotten in a lifetime. That pure love will never be seen again.

Today, after passing through the mottled years and going through the ups and downs of the world, do you still remember your first love when you were young?

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In my sophomore year of high school, when I walked into the classroom, I bumped into him as he was about to run out of the classroom.

At that moment, my face turned red with embarrassment and I felt like my heart was going to pop out. He pulled me up from the ground. It was the first time a boy held my hand. It felt very warm, as if I was sweating all over.

He said to me: Ye Xiaojing, I didn’t mean it, don’t blame me. ?

I lowered my head and didn't dare to look at him. I said "Hmm" and returned to my seat. Sitting on his seat, holding a book in his hand, he had no intention of reading at all. His shadow was all in his mind.

Originally, I didn’t pay attention to him, but since that time, my heart has been looking for him unconsciously. As long as he is in the classroom, I feel at ease and sweet in my heart. But if he is not here, I suddenly feel like something is missing, I feel so lost.

Then, I subconsciously ran to the playground to see if he was playing ball there. Many times, he was actually playing basketball with his classmates, and there were many girls around him cheering for him. But I always dare not squeeze into the crowd, so I just watch him from a distance.

I have always been a very quiet girl. I am used to being quiet, and even my words are as quiet as a mosquito buzzing. Sometimes I want to shout for him, but I always can't pull the button.

At that time, he looked like a very good player, tall and very bright.

Because of this, he attracted many girls to cheer for him on the sidelines of the court. I can't figure out if he has a girl he likes. Every time I see him talking and laughing with other girls, I feel very disappointed and sad.

At that time, I realized that I probably fell in love with him.

For a quiet girl like me, he would definitely not pay attention to me. I thought there would be nothing to do with him, but then the teacher arranged seats and actually placed him next to mine. At the front table, I started to get acquainted with him.

At that time, the teacher said that he would launch a one-on-one learning support program in the class. Surprisingly, the teacher assigned him to me. At that moment, I was a little confused. I really didn't know whether I should be happy or sad.

He is really bad at studying. He failed every subject. How can I help him? However, I still helped him formulate a study plan seriously. Who told me to like him?

At the beginning, he always refused to cooperate with me and asked him to take tutoring, as if he had lost his soul and had no interest at all. I remember that when I gave him tutoring, he always seemed unhappy and yelled at me. For this, I cried many times.

When he saw me crying, he calmed down and kept coaxing me, saying it was not intentional. Then, he told me a lot of jokes that I didn’t know where to find, which made me burst into laughter again.

After a period of time, he accepted my tutoring and became cooperative with me.

If he is not serious in class, I will poke him hard on the back with a ball pen.

That situation is just like Shen Jiayi in the movie "The Girl We Chased Together", who likes to poke Ke Jingteng with a pen. Maybe, every girl likes to express her love for boys in this way.

In this way, he and I maintained this relationship until the college entrance examination.

I remember when I was taking my graduation photo, he stood next to me and whispered: "Ye Xiaojing, will you forget me?" ?

I was a little shy, and I was surrounded by classmates, so I replied to him: "Don't be immodest." ?

Then, I heard a burst of laughter from the students. At this time, the teacher came and everyone took their seats. As the camera clicked, everyone's smiling faces were frozen in their senior year of high school.

After passing the college entrance examination, he did not go to college and looked very disappointed, while I went to a not bad university in another province.

I looked for him once, when he was on the sidelines of the court. I thought he would be like me and reluctant to say goodbye. However, when he saw me, he didn't feel reluctant to leave. Instead, he said to me: "What are you doing here?" ?

I was speechless for a moment, my face suddenly turned red, and I felt very uncomfortable.

At this time, he was even mean to me: "Aren't you going home yet?" What is a girl doing here? ?As he said that, he threw the ball in his hand hard.

When I heard this, my originally beautiful mood collapsed instantly. I cried and scolded him: "You bastard!" ?

Then, I ran back sadly.

Later, I came to university and told myself that I would never think about him again. In this way, until my junior year, one day, I suddenly received a letter from him.

At that moment, I couldn’t tell what it felt like. I opened the envelope gently, took out the letter, and held it in my hand.

At that moment, I suddenly couldn't help crying.

In the letter, he said: Ye Xiaojing, I like you, always have! However, I am not worthy of you, let alone delay your future, so why don’t you forget about me...?

This fool!

I wrote to him but never received a reply. I went to look for him during the holidays and never saw him again. From that moment on, he disappeared from my world.

03

Everyone has his or her own first love. No matter how much time passes, it will be stranded in the depths of memory.

When you are free and touch the past youth era, those pure first love stories will be teased out and become memories and nostalgia for the innocent years of the past.

First love will always bring us the most profound memory. It is so simple, yet so sincere.

Nowadays, in an era of materialistic desires, when marriage and love have become extremely secular, those first loves that have been stranded in the bottom of the heart are so precious.

Love seems to be becoming more and more fast-food and materialistic nowadays. As a result, many couples who are about to get married face a lot of challenges, such as houses, cars, betrothal gifts and the like.

When I really experience something, I look back and realize that the youthful days at that time were really pure and beautiful. Now, there is no going back.

It is true that most first loves are not perfect. Even if they fall in love again, they will be separated due to various reasons. In the end, they will remain in each other's hearts and become missed.

Everyone is growing up and will eventually experience different people or things. In the end, you will definitely meet the person who makes you happier and more dazzling.

However, you will never forget the person you fell in love with for the first time.

Just like what Le Xiaomi wrote in "Liang Sheng, Can We Not Be Sad": From Tiannan to Haibei, and then from Haibei to Tiannan, when all the prosperous world is mottled, I Will come back. The most inseparable thing in life is the first love. No matter how prosperous we experience, we will always remember the handsome features of that young man from Mo Shang. ?

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So, what is first love really like?

1. Ignorant love messes up your heart

When you meet someone and are suddenly attracted to him, you are at a loss when facing him, panicked, and your heart is messed up.

That feeling is very confused and a bit ignorant, but it must be sincere. That kind of feeling is your reverie every moment, always looking forward to seeing him.

Even if he doesn't care about you, it doesn't affect your liking for him. As long as he is around, you will feel at ease.

His every move, joy, anger, sorrow, and joy will pull your heart, making you feel happy and sad, but with an extremely pure sense of happiness.

2. Eternally hazy attachment

In the hearts of boys, girls are always gentle women with fluttering dresses; while in the hearts of girls, boys are always handsome and handsome boys. .

In this kind of emotion, there are not too many impurities and it is very pure. Maybe they don't need to have too much contact with each other, but the occasional glimpse of two people can win over countless people.

The smiles, voices, and every move of each other can leave a deep shadow in their hearts.

Perhaps, at that time, I really didn’t care about eternity, I just wanted to have it once.

3. Love is like a flower blooming in a dream

Gu Shige said in "First Love": "The simplest you is missing, and a very complicated me is added." ?

Maybe, this is the case for first love. Without the existence of the other party, the attachment of love has never left. It is always pulling in dreams and blooming the flowers of love.

First love is so soft and beautiful. I believe in the eternity of love and store it in the purest corner of my heart, never forgetting it.

In every moment and every time we spent together, we could find the long-lost happiness in the shadow of dreams.

Even if there is no defense in the future, those who have fallen in love will have no regrets.

Don’t ask for a long-term companionship, just a turning look back and a gentle hand-holding, that is the most beautiful.