Wishful thinking! Can middle-aged men really find love from extramarital affairs?

When you first get married, both men and women will be very concerned about what their lover thinks of them. And it's easy to catch shadows. When there are some close members of the opposite sex around each other, they will be jealous and feel that they must have done something wrong.

So I will be very concerned about the way he expresses his love, thinking that he will not show you his mobile phone and will have dinner with other women, so it must be heartbreaking. In fact,

Life is a huge theme. Love and marriage are very important parts, but not the whole life.

Especially after having children, the love between husband and wife will rise to affection. In other words, many couples will have a feeling that as they get married more and more, they will talk more about their children's education and prospects, and seldom talk about whether they are in love.

It is precisely because of this that men and women over the age of 40 have relatively stable lives and have money and leisure. People who look at the bedside seem to be more and more unworthy of themselves, and other thoughts will inevitably arise in their hearts.

It is human instinct to like the new and hate the old, but the sense of responsibility is the bottom line. In your twenties, you will attract women's attention. That's why you are attractive. but

More than forty years old, with Mediterranean hairstyle, a bulging beer belly, a wife and children at home, a beautiful young woman will come up to you and say that she really loves you. Just listen as a joke.

Everyone is not blind, and everyone likes excellent ones. With your conditions, why attract her?

Many men will think that young girls nowadays just like uncles. Yes, many women like uncles, but they like a handsome, rich and humorous uncle, not a middle-aged greasy man like you.

You think there is something wrong with your marriage because your wife made the wrong choice. Therefore, when you meet a young and beautiful woman who is gentle and considerate to you, you feel that you have found your own youthful feeling and true love. However, true love has a very important premise, that is, the conditions are equal. You are old, married and have children, and you are plain. Why do other girls want to fall in love with you?

Do you really think that it is love for most girls to find an uncle ten or even dozens years older than themselves? No, they just want to eat less, get some material advantages from you, or use your resources as a springboard for life. Once you are useless, you will be kicked out without mercy.

Of course, there will be very few women who listen to your lies and really regard themselves as your true love. But what can you give her? Can you really abandon your wife and children for him? If not, how did you promise her, how much she loved you at the beginning, and once you didn't give her what she wanted, she would definitely bite you back and even ruin your life, leaving no way out.

Men in their 40 s, if the marriage is really unhappy and you can't live for a day, then choose divorce! And if it is because he has no ability, does not manage his marriage well, and can't find his own value in marriage, it is like a man standing up and taking responsibility, instead of using extramarital affairs to escape.