Join hands with schools and teachers to help children grow up healthily and happily!

Join hands with schools and teachers to help children grow up healthily and happily!

This is my shared manuscript at the parent-teacher conference. )

Thank you, teachers and children, for giving me this opportunity to share and discuss the topic of children's learning with the teachers and parents present.

I know that every child in every family has its own unique beauty. In the process of accompanying children to study, parents have different ideas, methods and experiences, and there may be a lot of confusion and anxiety.

I would like to take this opportunity to talk to you about my family's accompanying children to study, and I also hope to learn from each other and support each other.

First, the whole family attaches importance to learning.

We live with our grandparents. Grandparents are students in grade three. In their minds, reading and studying is the most important thing. Study hard and make progress every day is what they often say. The whole family attaches great importance to conceptual learning and tries their best to practice it. At home, children often see grandpa reading a newspaper, grandma listening to a health lecture, and mom and dad are not playing games, but reading books or writing reports, although they are faced with mobile phones or computers. In recent years, children have seen that although their parents are working, they are still studying, attending classes, doing homework and doing research ... Therefore, there is a learning atmosphere at home and children also have a learning environment. Of course, I also know now that everything needs moderation. Learning is a lifetime thing, but there is more than learning in life. Attach importance to learning, but you can't blindly force learning and covet good grades. )

Second, we attach importance to home-school cooperation.

At this age, children's growing environment is mainly family and school.

Although parents are children's most important teachers, they don't spend much time with their children during school (children's main activities are at school all day), and because of our parents' own limitations, they don't fully understand their children's situation, so it is very necessary to actively communicate with teachers and cooperate with the school.

Seriously, I often feel that we and our children are really lucky. Our school has such a good educational concept, such reasonable and rich curriculum design club activities, and so many conscientious teachers. Under the guidance of teachers, children learn to be human and do things, exercise and increase their knowledge and skills, and grow up healthily and happily. Therefore, we are really grateful to the school and teachers. Children love school life.

Generally, I will take the initiative to contact the teacher in about two months. First, I will know about my children's situation at school. Secondly, I will also ask some questions about my confusion when I am with my children. Ask the teacher to point out what we need to pay more attention to and how to guide the children at home.

There is specialization in the art, and parents are our identity. However, how to do a good job as a parent and how to raise children also requires us to constantly consult teachers and professionals and keep learning.

Third, have a small goal and a few good habits.

Two days before the start of each semester, dad will find a time to chat with his children and let them set a small goal for this semester according to their own ideas. In order to achieve this small goal, he will make a corresponding schedule. According to the actual situation in the first week of school, fine-tune the form, then present it in writing and stick it on the wall of the children's room.

A small goal is a direction. Plan is a road. This gives children an idea of what they are going to do this semester. Of course, at the end of the semester, the goal may not be fully realized and the plan may not be strictly implemented, but at least our parents and children have a foundation, hope and work hard towards the goal. At the end of the semester, summarize the goals and plans at the beginning of the semester, find out the shortcomings, improve them and welcome the next semester.

There is a blackboard at home. On the blackboard, my father wrote the words "serious, efficient, self-disciplined and persistent". This is not only a habit that we want our children to develop, but also a habit that reminds parents to develop.

When the child was in the third and fourth grades, he was a little impetuous. It is also easy to be careless, forgetful and procrastinating.

We found that it was because we arranged too much for our children in life, demanded too much in behavior, accused and nagged our children more than encouraged and recognized them, and didn't let them try to be responsible for themselves.

Therefore, we also examine whether our expectations for children are too high, whether our mentality is too impatient and anxious, and whether our ways are improper.

Therefore, we adjust our mentality, learn to manage our emotions, let go appropriately, let our children start checking their homework, tidy up their rooms and things, and arrange the time and process of doing things by themselves ... We also accept the situation that children can't do well at first, and accept the frustration that children are criticized for not doing well. We adjust and adapt with our children. We also form these good habits with our children.

Fourth, the power of example.

Example is very important to a person. He gave us a look, gave us motivation and gave us strength.

People often say that children are copies of their parents. As parents, we should have this awareness. Our mentality, words and deeds have a great influence on our children. Therefore, if you want your child to be what he is now, you must try to be what he is now.

Of course, parents are not perfect and have limited abilities. We hope shine on you is better than Blue, and our children will be better than us.

On the one hand, we try to be role models for our children. On the other hand, we find an example for our children.

The child has two cousins, one is a senior of Fengyang, who graduated last year and went to the United States to study in high school. Another is an undergraduate of 985 College. After graduation, he was admitted to Beihang University as a graduate student with high scores.

These two brothers are role models for the children. Children will ask their brothers for learning methods and school experience, and they will also look forward to the outside world and a good platform through their sharing.

The jokes on the internet are ridiculous. Today's high-risk occupation is to accompany your baby to learn to write homework. Parents and children don't talk about study, cuddle, and when it comes to homework, chickens fly and dogs jump.

It seems like a joke, but it is also real life. To tell the truth, over the years, my anxiety has increased, my temper has skyrocketed, my face is uncertain, and my mentality has fluctuated.

How to give children a good education, and finally how to raise children, I am also very confused and confused, and I am constantly asking and exploring.

Finally, I want to say,

Every child has enough internal drive and good mind, as long as we can really trust.

At the same time, we should really understand that kindness is not only a definition, but also a standard. Every child will bloom his unique beauty in his own way.

Thank you for giving us the status of parents, and hope that we can continue to learn and grow in the position of parents.

Thanks to teachers and schools, let's join hands to help children grow up healthily and happily!

Looking through the computer, I saw a text written two years ago, which seemed to be shared at school. I still feel something after reading it, so I just posted it to save it. )

? Every child is a good boy.

Every child is an angel with wings; Every child has a pure, kind and beautiful heart.

In modern society, everything needs a qualification and a training certificate. However, parents alone do not have such an exam and such a work permit.

We naturally become parents because of the arrival of our children. Because of the interaction with our children, we relived our childhood and enjoyed the beauty.

Facing the topic of "raising children", my heart is actually full of anxiety. Because I'm really not sure: do children need to be trained? And I, really have the ability to talk nonsense to train him? !

Therefore, I can only write down the thoughts of getting along with children in my mind. In fact, many times I didn't do it, but I am still trying to do it.

First: Direction: What kind of person do I want my children to be?

I haven't thought about this problem before, but I just talk in general, hoping that my children will grow up healthily and happily. Since my children went to school and came into contact with the four school mottos, I have become more and more clear. I hope that the direction of children's growth is to exercise well, form good habits, learn to master the skills of survival, and find a happy way.

Second: Method: If you have a direction for your child's growth, then the next step is the method.

The growth of children must be related to the environment and the times. We can only adapt to the times and the big environment, and the small environment can be built by our own ability.

In the process of children's early growth, family and school are the two most important small environments.

As parents, we appreciate and deeply appreciate the warm school environment created by so many enthusiastic and conscientious teachers.

As for the family environment, our whole family is also adhering to the concept of "a warm home is the soil for children to grow up", and strives to create a warm and loving family atmosphere, so that children can relax and replenish energy at home.

Grandparents devoted themselves wholeheartedly to this family. They set an example for their children: get up early, work and rest regularly, exercise, be diligent and capable, and cherish frugally. ...

Parents are also constantly learning how to honor the elderly, how to accompany their children, how to develop themselves, and strive to set a good example for their children.

Because we know that children don't listen to what you say, but look at what you do. The height of parents is the starting point of children.

The so-called teaching is nothing more than the effect of things imposed from above.

Therefore, there is only one real way: set an example.

Third: Way: Nowadays, adults know a lot of truth and are good at reasoning with children (me too, preaching), but this way of preaching is hard for children to accept.

Now, I understand a sentence more and more: as long as you give your child enough love and trust, you don't need to ask for it. The child thinks that good motivation will drive him to do better and better independently.

Therefore, for children, the best way is to enhance their parents' ability to love, to look at the children themselves with loving eyes, to understand their inner feelings and needs after their superficial behavior with loving hearts, and to fill their bodies and minds with loving nutrients. There is no other way.

Experts say that the so-called family education, fundamentally speaking, is the self-education of parents.

I deeply agree with this idea.

So, let's start by being yourself. When I am myself, I think my children will be fine.

I believe and wish: every child is a good boy!

I also hope that I have patience and care to see and appreciate the beauty of every child.

Thank my children for giving me the opportunity to learn how to be myself!

Thanks to the teacher, I have the opportunity to organize myself through words, see and make clear what I need to do!