Have little ability and temper

At the beginning of the Ming Dynasty, I gave up my job as soon as I went to school and took charge of the hospital. The group is sudden, and about two or three new patrolmen ask for advice. Li said in the palm of his hand, "Don't make people afraid when you go out, and don't make people laugh when you come back." The listeners are all in awe.

In the early years of the Ming Dynasty, a self-recommended official from Guo Jian became the secretariat of the capital of Douchayuan. The censors from Cody looked down on him very much, and made an appointment with several people who were going to travel to other provinces on business, asking him to give directions together, hoping to try his weight.

Who knows that he didn't refuse, but immediately received it, just saying two words loudly: get out of here, don't be afraid; Come back, don't make people laugh. Now that you say this, no one dares to underestimate him.

Leaders who often speak should learn more from this ancient counselor, and don't let the audience sit on pins and needles, such as being punished.

Some leaders' speeches are thoughtful and memorable, but they are always worried about the IQ of others and are always afraid that others will not understand them. As a result, it can be said in two sentences. He sat there talking for two hours. He talked until everyone was confused and fidgety, and he was satisfied and ended the meeting.

Of course, the mood of the speech is also very important. Describing this man with the word "harsh voice" shows that he is aggressive and has not made a fool of himself. In front of these colleagues who are taller than himself, he is confident and confident.

You have your background knowledge, I have my heart, and this arena of life is full of flowers.

Don't be afraid to go out, and don't make people laugh when you come back. It's quite memorable. Thousands of years of centralized rule, China people naturally worship power, and that kind of official uniform has a great deterrent to ordinary people. Therefore, it is very rare and important for civil servants, especially leaders, to remind themselves of a normal heart at all times.

I remember Wu Bofan once explained that the word "ability" means ability and room for tolerance. The higher the ability, the stronger the endurance, indicating that the ability is great and the living space is large.

Tolerance here is normal. It's good to walk the red carpet with bright stars when it's red, and it's comfortable to walk the streets and sell sweet potatoes when it's not red. Of course, being able to shine with the stars proves your high ability, and being able to sell sweet potatoes calmly proves your strong tolerance.

Anything can happen in a person's life, not because of his position, nor because of his bad fate, so he will take pleasure in it.

Occasionally, when I am anxious, I feel at ease as long as I think that people don't have to have high demands on life, and simple clothes can lead a good and moist life.

It is said that Chow Yun Fat will take the subway from time to time, Stephen Chow often takes a taxi, Dong Mingzhu likes to eat in the canteen, and Lei Jun likes to take economy class. They won't lift themselves off the ground because of the superstar aura and huge wealth.

On the contrary, they are deliberately maintaining their tolerance and sensitivity to people and life. This is the ability to be truly happy.

On the contrary, look at some little people, arrogant, luxurious and delicious, putting on airs to the extreme. The ability is not big, the endurance is very poor, once the luck is lost, it is like a faded balloon that doesn't know where to land.