What are the topics of blind date chat?

What are the topics of blind date chat?

What are the topics of blind date chat? Blind date is becoming more and more common now. Many people will know the other half because they believe, but two people still have to talk about blind date. Some people are struggling with what to talk about. Let's share some topics about blind date chat. Let's have a look.

1 What are the topics of blind date chat?

1. What are you most proud of?

Although this question really sounds like an interview, in fact, most people like to brag about their great achievements more or less. This question not only opens the topic, but also helps to understand the values of the new friend, what he values, and whether the other person's magnetic field is the same as his own.

2. How are you today? What are you up to?

This is a very basic question, but the classic question is the best one. When we first meet, it is very important to find out what we have in common, so by talking about daily activities, such as "How are you today?" Through such a simple question, we can know each other's daily activities and entertainment methods.

If you have a holiday, where do you want to go most?

This question can clearly know each other's interests, and you can know that your new friends prefer camping with tents, or enjoy and relax in five-star hotels.

4. What is the boldest thing you have ever done?

Even extroverts may feel shy and embarrassed on the first date. But with this topic, you can let new friends tell their stories in a retrospective way, which is usually very interesting and fresh, especially to solve the embarrassment of the first date.

5. Do you like cats or dogs?

This question is very important! In fact, people are quietly divided into "cat pie" and "dog pie". People in these two factions usually can't understand why the other side likes cats or dogs so much. In addition, some studies show that "dog-pie" people are usually more energetic, while "cat-pie" people are more introverted and sensitive, so we can also preliminarily guess each other's personality in this way.

6. What kind of relationship are you looking for recently?

Stable contacts or more new friends? This question is a bit private, but it would be better to ask it clearly if possible. Asking this question clearly can avoid misunderstanding and hurting each other's feelings, and can also avoid wasting a lot of time and money on dating, but it is fruitless. After all, it must be very bad to know that the other person is married or has children after several dates that feel good about themselves.

7. Do you like sweets?

This question may seem a bit strange. However, both men and women have a special preference for sweets. In the stereotype, they think that girls generally like sweets, and always think that it is a safe card to send a box of chocolates during a small holiday, but they don't know that the other party doesn't like sweets, and they smile a little stiff at the moment they receive it. So in the first date, this question can not only open the topic, but also better understand each other's preferences.

What are the topics of blind date chat? 2. The basic skills of blind date chatting.

First, meet on a blind date and talk about what is not ice.

1, tourist attractions

Every girl likes traveling. She will expect some interesting places. You can share some interesting places and get to know each other better.

2. Brothers and sisters

When we met 1, I didn't know what to say. We can talk about our brothers and sisters. Everyone is willing to share their childhood environment or talk about their childhood ideals. In this way, we can be more relaxed and happy.

Step 3 talk about food

If you have nothing to talk about, you can start with some delicious food or movies according to the situation. When you are in high spirits, you can also go out to taste delicious food or watch movies together.

3. Future plans

When dating, you always have to get to know each other. You can ask each other about their plans for the future. If the other person is willing to talk, there may be many opportunities for discussion between the two.

Second, the necessary chat topics when dating

1, working conditions

When dating, you need to know something about each other's work and life before you can talk about their work. It's best not to talk about things that bother you at work, but about your plans for the future or your plans for work. However, this content will be a bit boring. You can add some other topics and say some humorous words to make the other person feel as kind to you.

2, mate selection requirements

Blind date has some purposes, and we can't just talk about some interesting things in life and some crucial words. You still need to let the other person choose the other half to see if you meet this requirement. If it is completely different from what the other party described, there is no need to pay too much, but there are special circumstances. If you have a good impression on each other, you can also pursue each other through hard work.

Men's blind date must be introduction 1. When a blind date begins to meet, silence is scrap metal.

It's not the hardest thing to find a topic for the first blind date. The hardest thing is to keep silent all the time. If you don't say a word, or no matter what the other person says, there is only a cold response, and you don't take the initiative to find a topic, it will definitely make the other person retreat. You know, dating is a matter for two people after all.

2, the clothing temperament and the other party are completely out of tune.

On the first blind date, if one party thinks that the other party has poor taste in clothes and is unwilling to walk together, there is basically no second chance. If you are not confident about your taste in clothes, you might as well read the dress guide of fashion magazines before dating.

3, the attitude of paying the bill is not enough.

In fact, in the initial stage of love, the attitude of paying the bill is very important. If the other person is a big man (big woman) and has enough strength, the most important thing to avoid is AA with the other person. However, if the other party's ideas are westernized and everything is equal, you might as well pay with AA. If the other person is older and more powerful than you, you don't have to pretend to pay the bill. Thank you very much. But after a few times, you might as well buy a small order.

4. Don't get sick for the first blind date.

Even if it is love at first sight, there is no need to rush to "confess". First, the other party will feel "too fast" afterwards; Secondly, you can't help losing your enthusiasm yourself. So, it's better to wait twice, at least after we have made clear our relationship ... In the early days of love, sometimes it's as thin as a spider's web, and if we are not careful, we will lose everything.

5, too brilliant love experience

Talking about past love experiences is almost a compulsory course for blind date. But if you talk too much, you will lose, which will easily lead to the relationship between the two. If you are experienced, the other person may think that you are a playboy, or that you are not very disciplined; If the experience is not only rich but also painful, the other party will not sympathize with you, but will think that there must be something wrong with you, so that you will be dumped continuously.

6, a kind of "casual"

When we meet for the first time, everything, big and small, is left to the other party to choose, decide and deal with. I'm completely passive. Unless the other person happens to be a big man (woman), the other person will feel bored and tired immediately. And even if the other person is very controlling, he will want to satisfy your wish: what do you want? Where are you going? If you don't have any expectations, you are always "casual" and the other person will find it boring.

Blind date, like hitting on girls, is an art. Although there is no fixed method, traditional methods can still be summarized. There are many reasons why boys fail in blind date, but they are more skillful. Below, I will sort out the blind date experience for everyone and summarize how the blind date man returned to the "blind date battlefield".