What kind of experience is it to see your predecessor again?

I was very emotional at that time, not feeling the past, but feeling that time is really a good thing. Two people who once loved each other like that will eventually break up.

I was still so sad when I clearly broke up. I will secretly shed tears for a long time after breaking up, but I feel so calm to see you again now!

I still remember when we just broke up, he asked me out to dinner, and after several dates, I refused directly. Because I don't want to see him again, I don't know what expression to face him when I see him.

Unexpectedly, a few years later, I can sit down and chat calmly like an old friend that many people have never seen. No one deliberately mentioned the past, but simply chatted about the recent situation of each other's lives.

Later, we didn't contact again. I didn't add WeChat when I left. Maybe we don't think it's necessary, and we won't contact again in the future.

A week later, he found me on QQ and said that after meeting that day, he remembered that I had asked him why he broke up, but he still didn't tell me. He said he still owed me. Do you want to know now?

I thought about it and replied that he didn't want to. The reason was just that time passed. Maybe it's not that he doesn't want to tell me, but that he can't understand it himself.

It may be clear now, but it is not necessarily the real idea of the year. After all, after so many years, everyone has forgotten the mood at that time. The reason why I think of it now may be the reason given by recalling the scene at that time.

Moreover, whatever the reason, what role can it play besides making yourself feel more sighs and sighs?

So the appearance of your ex must not disturb your present life. The past is the past, you can feel it, but after you feel it, move on and live a life without making any changes.