This woman is famous for treating her husband like a brother in the upper bunk bed and living her life like a joke.

My husband is the brother who sleeps on the upper bunk.

This widely circulated joke was once a household name and full of jokes, but few people may know that this joke originated from the talk show actress Si Wen.

Because she has been teasing couples on the show for a long time, she became the "brother who sleeps on bunk beds", became a hot search topic, attracted countless fans, and finally became the "talk show sister".

I recently watched the second season of "Talk Show" and was deeply attracted by this interesting woman who made fun of her own life.

How fun is it to think?

When it comes to the relationship between husband and wife, she said:

Don’t believe what a man says. I am responsible for making money to support the family, and you are responsible for looking beautiful.

Even if you are as beautiful as a flower, over time you will become as beautiful as a flower.

Her way of complaining about her husband is also different. She said:

There is a way. Treat your husband as a brother.

When paying the bill, the two of them scrambled for fear of the other party paying the bill;

When sleeping, the double bed is replaced by bunk beds, and your husband is your brother sleeping on the top bunk. Come and have a sleepover if you have nothing to do;

Having a baby or having a caesarean section is nothing more than doing something for your brother.

I made fun of my mother-in-law and said it was not difficult for her and daughter-in-law to get along. The most important thing is to spend money.

The wave of divorce after the college entrance examination:

It must be very sad to experience the divorce of your parents when you were a child. When she tells it, everything comes easily.

She was not very hurt by her parents' divorce. When I was a child, I often used it to suppress my classmates. Whoever bullies her, as long as she says "My parents are divorced", she will get a "Sorry" from her friends.

Both divorced couples want each other to have a good life, so she will tell her parents the bad news about the other person to make them happy.

I even made up the lyrics:

Tell your dad about your troubles to your mom, and talk to your dad about your mom. How happy a family of three is!

The relaxed and humorous words virtually alleviate the bitterness and helplessness of childhood.

Unlike other talk show actors, Si Wen’s jokes come more from life. Starting from the trivial things that happen around the interpersonal relationships such as husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is told from a female perspective, which makes it appear particularly true, independent and free.

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On the talk show stage, Si Wen’s performance made the audience burst into laughter again and again, but after reading an in-depth interview about her, I realized that, Si Wen's journey along the way was not as smooth and happy as shown in her performance.

Si Wen is the first generation of left-behind children. Her mother has been doing business in Guangzhou all year round, and she spends less time together and more time apart. She grew up with her grandmother and met her father for the first time as a teenager. Perhaps because of talent or family factors, Si Wen knew how to please people around him since he was a child.

Si Wen is good at imitation. At school, she liked to imitate her classmates and teachers, and sometimes she would deliberately imitate the announcers on TV when reading aloud. Her humor made her popular among her classmates.

Before officially entering the talk show industry, humor was more like her self-protection. Si Wen calls himself a masked man.

Her ingratiating personality also made her depressed when the college entrance examination was approaching, and her final grades were very poor. This kind of self-confidence built on academic performance and recognition from others becomes more fragile.

I met a talk show by chance. Si Wen, who was still working in a state-owned enterprise at the time, watched a talk show by chance. During the interactive session, everyone takes turns telling jokes. She roasted the day's performers by imitating previous contestants, which turned out to be more effective than if someone had been at the venue.

The host at the time, Lu Cheng, asked for her phone number, and they collaborated, fell in love and got married. I moved to Shanghai from Shenzhen and became colleagues and "bunkong".

After becoming a professional talk show actress, her road was not easy.

When she first came into contact with talk shows, Si Wen thought she was very talented, but later she fell into the trough of frequent silent performances.

She said she once "regreted", "Isn't it good to use the Internet in the company? A day's workload is equivalent to a year's workload." She even thought about whether to learn yoga and become a yoga practitioner teacher.

After painful precipitation and amazing growth, finally in 2017, Si Wen won the third place in the finals of the first season of "Talk Show Conference".

Seeing that his career has reached a new level

When it was severe, he had a high fever for nearly a month, but the fever did not go away. Later I had to have surgery due to inflammation. During the whole process, I lost nearly twenty pounds.

For a whole year, Si Wen was unable to work, and as an actor, not being on stage meant that he would gradually be forgotten by the audience.

The blow doesn’t stop there.

During her illness, grandma Si Wen passed away at the age of 91. Si Wen, who grew up in a divorced family, has deep feelings for his cheerful, open-minded and humorous grandma. She also said in a segment on the show that her talent for talk shows may have been inherited from her grandmother.

Under the double blow of body and mind, Si Wen once completely closed off his emotions and spent a long time healing himself.

Li Dan once said that if she had not been ill since the end of the first season of "Talk Show", she would have achieved far better development than she does now.

At the same time, these previous misfortunes have become valuable material for her to make everyone laugh and cry in this season of "Talk Show Conference".

It turns out that looking at problems from a humorous perspective can really make you open-minded.

Another talk show actor Hu Lan mentioned in the show: Si Wen was ill for a year last year, and something happened at home. He experienced pain, but he told these stories about Hua Song's life. , which made him a "king".

Life is hard, but humorous people can always bloom in hard times.

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Some may think: As hard as life is, it sounds cruel to turn those sad things into jokes.

But Sven said:

Humor is the best way to reconcile with pain.

Because we always need an outlet for negative emotions. If you keep it in your heart, when it reaches a certain critical point, you will easily collapse. At this time, look at the pain from a different angle and use laughter to release suppressed emotions, which is also a kind of self-healing to a certain extent.

Many public opinions now emphasize that women must be strong, but women must not only be strong, but also need resilience. We don’t necessarily have to face the difficulties in life head-on. Sometimes we can bear them in another way, but instead of being destroyed, we have a better attitude towards life.

A sense of humor is a form of adaptability. It enables people to bounce back or recover quickly from adversity, conflict and failure.

Facing issues such as family background, intimate relationships, and relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that can easily cause negative emotions for most people, Si Wen uses self-deprecating and self-deprecating humor to resolve them. Not only did I resolve them myself, I turned them into jokes that made others who faced the same problem smile or even laugh out loud. ——It’s not so painful if you look at it from another angle!

When you are unhappy, you might as well learn to smile politely. Even if you don't live a perfect life, you can still live a life that is interesting, full of laughter, and colorful.