When men date girls, what practical tips do experienced drivers have?

When dating, if one party talks a lot and the other party listens actively, then the listening party is usually attracted to the speaking party.

At this stage, a girl listening carefully to you is a very important indicator of her favorability. Even if you talk about trivial matters, she listens with interest and asks questions and responds. This shows that she cares about you. is interested.

The reverse is also true, this is exactly how we behave in front of the girl we like.

Perfect dating communication should be two-way, with each party listening carefully to what the other is saying and responding positively.

So, when the date reaches a certain stage, we must talk about some topics about ourselves, so that you can see from the other person's reaction how much interest she has in you.

In the process of men chasing women, we often ignore these simple principles because of our eagerness for success, blindly cater to needs, busy creating good impressions, and neglect to judge the other person's interest in you.

In addition, it should be emphasized that asking questions is not necessarily an indicator of interest. Some more realistic girls will ask: Where are you from? What kind of work you do has nothing to do with your interests. They are just doing preliminary screening.

At this time we need to understand clearly what a “material girl” is. It is normal for women to have material requirements for men. Most women will judge whether a man is qualified or not through his details. This is a euphemistic and implicit "woman's way".

And "material girls" are often naked and direct, and they adopt "men's methods". From an evolutionary perspective, women will face the world like men only when they are in an unsafe situation.

So, we don’t like “material girls”, actually we don’t like insecure women. For example, that recent quote that has been widely ridiculed? I would rather sit in a BMW and cry like this country girl than think about it. Which man wants to marry a wife who cries?

So, just as men should talk and act like men, women are cute to us when they act like women, and women who are insecure tend to act like men. Think and act the same.

For example: "What do you do for a living?" and "What do you do at work?" As a man, of course, a man would prefer a woman who chooses the latter way of speaking.