Having children is often a joke of others.

Ms. Zhou and her husband are both ordinary working-class people. Not long after they got married, Ms. Zhou gave birth to a boy and a girl respectively. A few years later, she found herself pregnant again. Originally, her husband suggested aborting another child, but Ms. Zhou insisted on giving birth to the child.

At that time, Ms. Zhou gave birth to three children, and many relatives and friends were not optimistic. Some relatives even laughed at Ms. Zhou's "getting poorer and poorer"! In the face of all kinds of doubts and ridicule, Ms. Zhou said that she is confident that she can take good care of all her children.

For more than 20 years, under the careful training of Ms. Zhou and her husband, all three children have made great achievements. Both the eldest and the second have their own families. Although the third child is young, his grades are very good, and he soon wants to go abroad for further study.

The three children are especially filial to their parents. Every week, they take turns going home to visit their parents. On holidays, the whole family often goes out to travel together, and life is proud. At first, neighbors who questioned that they had too many children were envious.

Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. If children know how to be grateful to their parents since childhood, I believe they will be very filial to their parents when they grow up in the future. So, how are filial children generally cultivated?

How are filial children cultivated?

Establish an orderly family relationship between the young and the old.

Nowadays, many families are only children, and parents basically regard their children as the center of the family and revolve around them every day, which will easily lead to their selfish personality.

In order to make children filial, parents should establish an orderly family relationship between young and old. Parents and elders are the heads of the family, and they are taught to respect and be filial to their elders from an early age. Children will be filial to their parents when they grow up in the future.

Let the children help with the housework.

In fact, in life, parents should also let their children do some housework within their power, such as helping to sweep the floor, clean the table, wash the dishes and so on. This way can not only cultivate children's sense of responsibility, but also make children feel the hardships of their parents. Generally sensible children will be very filial to their parents in the future.

Parents lead by example.

The power of example is infinite. In life, what parents do can exert a subtle influence on their children. Because the child is still young, he still doesn't understand various principles. They prefer to watch their parents do this and then follow suit.

If parents honor the elderly and respect their elders, under the influence of parents, I believe that children will gradually develop the good habit of filial piety to their parents and elders.

In short, filial children should be cultivated from an early age. In life, parents should not spoil their children too much, but should teach them to learn to be grateful and share, which will help them develop various excellent qualities.