Zhao Yi talk, just give somebody else a knife. Should I keep my mouth shut when I live with my mother-in-law?

Of course we have to control it. In fact, no matter who you are with, you should keep your mouth shut. Misfortune comes from the mouth? Don't be impulsive and bring unhappiness to others. I often hear people say? I'm a outspoken person, so don't take it personally, okay? . I always think this statement is hypocritical. If you know what you said is not good, why do you say it? Knowing it, but expecting others? Don't take it personally. Excuse me, who are you? Others are not your mother, so they won't be so jealous of you!

I saw a joke on the Internet before: What if someone told you? Do you mind if I speak so bluntly? Then you should slap him and tell him. That's how painful it is for me to hit people. How can you stand it? I really felt good when I saw it at that time! The so-called straightforwardness, to put it mildly, is simple-minded, ugly, and stupid, so stupid that he neither respects himself nor others, and finally asks others to be more tolerant, otherwise others are narrow-minded, which is someone else's fault, and he really regards himself as an uncle.

Zhao's performance in variety shows is really outspoken. Sometimes, in order to cover up the embarrassment, everyone laughs at it as a joke, but does the teaser really care? Once or twice, maybe when you made a mistake unintentionally, but never mind, how many times? Still don't mind? You can always keep the same temper, but others will still make progress. You don't respect her growth, and you always make fun of some old things. Where is honesty and frankness? It's terrible!

Why has the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law been bad? A large part of the reason is that you can't talk. The biggest misunderstanding of communication between adults is that if you say what you want to say, you are communicating. As everyone knows, the truly effective communication is to say it in a way acceptable to the other party, rather than self-righteous.