Song Dandan said in public that "I gave birth to a loser", will it have a bad influence on my son?

I'm sure I will. Even if Batu doesn't say anything, I feel very uncomfortable. I was laughed at by my mother in public and accused of incompetence in front of the national audience. Anyone will be very angry, but Batu just smiles and expresses his helplessness.

Maybe Song Dandan doesn't love his son? No, Song Dandan loves Batu, but he chose the wrong way of education. Batu was also hardworking and excellent, but Song Dandan refused to admit that he was killed or praise him. This is a common problem for many parents to educate their children. It's not just Song Dandan. Many parents in China think that such aggressive education can promote children's growth, but they don't know that such education in the name of love is not desirable, and may even hinder children's inner growth.

Children who grow up in such a family are often accompanied by timidity and inferiority. In fact, they really want their parents to praise themselves, but this has become their heart disease. This growing environment is unfair to them, and they have done nothing wrong. As Zheng wrote in his work Father and Son, the father who beats and scolds children is not a man, but a coward. You gave birth to the baby. If you are not satisfied, beat yourself.

Many older parents like to use this repressive education to establish their authority in front of their children and use this language to achieve their goals. This kind of education has established authority and achieved its goal, but it has also caused indelible harm to children. In fact, speaking well is a compulsory course for parents, and it is most correct to educate children in a way of encouragement and comfort.