What do you hate most about your friend's behavior?

What or what kind of behavior do you hate most about your friends? I think what bothers me most is complaining.

I had a friend when I was at school. She is usually alone. I think she is quite lonely, so I take the initiative to find her to play, and I will invite her everywhere.

After getting to know her, I think she is very nice and gentle, but she looks very painful. At that time, I didn't understand why no one wanted to play with her before. Later, I found out that she really had a lot of unsolved problems and a lot of complaints.

At first, it was fine. I think I have enough patience to persuade her, encourage her and tell her more positive things. But then I really found out that my handwriting was poor, so small that my glass was rubbed on the table, so big that I failed the exam. I complain about her family situation and her getting along with everyone in the dormitory, as long as I can complain.

Really, sometimes I think such people are particularly terrible. Sometimes you want to avoid her, but she thinks you have become a straw in her life. It's really hard to catch the feeling that someone wants to listen to you.

Sometimes when you are in a good mood, she still complains about this and that, which makes you in a bad mood. Once, I encouraged her to go running together, so that the bad mood would evaporate from us with sweat, and we could also exercise. However, before she finished a lap, she began to complain about how tired she was running.

For a time, when I closed my eyes, my mind was full of her painful face. People who have experienced it really feel that the whole person is not good. I tried to ignore her first, and she seemed to notice. She wrote to me and said that she felt abandoned by me and the whole world.

I really feel that complaining is a dose of poison, torturing myself and others. There are so many inspirational stories in the world that everyone can face life positively. Why can't we normal people enjoy the sunshine of life?

No one's life is perfect. In life, we can complain appropriately and vent our emotions and dissatisfaction. But endless complaints can lead people into a vicious circle.

When you keep complaining, you should consider whether it will bring trouble to others. Others can choose to be the object of your listening, but they have no obligation to be the trash can for you to vent your dissatisfaction.

Life is not easy. You can't just treat problems emotionally. Life should be simple and happy. If you can look at everything around you with a positive attitude, you will find that life is so beautiful.