How to deal with the scene of social death

Personally, I have experienced some embarrassing large-scale social death scenes. That is, when I was in college, I was usually very flustered, and I was a person who especially liked to get into class at the right time. At this time, there will be some corresponding flaws. For example, in this class, because I remember the class wrong, I will rush to someone else's class. Then, after going in, I found that I don't want to be done to others by myself ... I went to the wrong class, and I had to pretend to be calm and go out. However, after walking out of this class, you will find that the students behind you will burst into laughter, because they know that they have come to their class in the wrong class.

There are also some embarrassing large-scale social death scenes, that is, I clearly remember who this person is, but I can't remember his name anyway. At this time, I will feel particularly embarrassed, and I have to call out my name on this occasion, but obviously, I will call my name wrong. But at this time, others will feel particularly embarrassed, and when everyone is together, they will feel that they are not valued. So when we were in college, there were some embarrassing scenes. In the process of speaking in public, I put the sentences in the wrong order because I was too tight, and as a result I made a big joke.

So at ordinary times, we must pay more attention to learning from professional teachers, and master the correct way of speaking and communicating with others, so that our language expression will be clearer and smoother, and it is very important to pay attention to the correct way of communication.

1. Learn to put yourself in the other's shoes

People should learn to put themselves in the other's shoes, so that they can understand each other more. When we all know how to put ourselves in the other's shoes, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and chatting will become more pleasant and efficient.