My husband and I are married freely and have a daughter who just chatted with the old man. I said, if one day I leave, you will let me come back to see my daughter.

This joke is too big. He will think you are having an affair and test him by leaving. How did you get to such a topic? You can't explain it clearly No one will be indifferent to such a problem. Make up for your mistakes quickly, so cold will affect your feelings. Be modest in joking and don't talk nonsense.

I hope I can help you.