Why is Xue Baochai, who combines beauty and talent, inferior to Lin Daiyu? Where did she lose?

In A Dream of Red Mansions, Daiyu actually has no extraordinary skills, but why can't Xue Baochai, who is both beautiful and talented, compare with Daiyu? Baochai lost to Daiyu, because she really can't compare with these three advantages.

First, Daiyu's true nature, love and hate are clear.

Daiyu in the Grand View Garden is often regarded as stingy, because Daiyu sometimes speaks disrespectfully (Baoyu was embarrassed by his grandmother, Mammy Li), and Daiyu's reputation of sharp teeth and sharp mouth was widely circulated for the first time.

Daiyu has been living a cautious life in Jiafu. "She doesn't take a step or say a word, for fear that others will laugh at her." In fact, at first, Daiyu didn't say anything about Mammy Li's discipline of Baoyu, but later it intensified, deliberately relying on the old to sell the old. Daiyu couldn't stand it, so she opened her mouth to tidy up her.

For these old mothers, the average person will not offend them, because they will complain, and maybe they will give you trouble if they have nothing to do. If they can, they will not bother. Xue Baochai never goes.

Because Li's mother is Baoyu's wet nurse, her status will be more respected, but Daiyu really doesn't like her embarrassing Baoyu, because she just paid her back, and a few words made her obediently admit her cowardice and dare not say any more.

Dai Yu is not the kind of person who is arrogant. Xiangling is also a servant, and Dai Yu is very congenial to her. She not only teaches her poetry, but also is a very good friend with her!

For Baochai, who is praised by everyone, Daiyu often misses her when she doesn't like it, but when Daiyu likes it, she won't wriggle, and directly regards Baochai as her sister, which is simply treating Baochai as her sister.

Daiyu's true nature was revealed when she made friends. The person she likes likes likes it, and the person who doesn't like it will directly show that she doesn't like it. It is also very rare to be true to your heart, to be clear about love and hate, to be unpretentious and not hypocritical.

Second, Daiyu is kind and cares about people and things.

Some people will say that Daiyu is a little girl who cries all day, but this is also a manifestation of Daiyu's true colors. In order to leave a pool of residual leaves, Daiyu will tell you the poems of poets she doesn't like, "Leave residual lotus to listen to the rain", and Daiyu will save all lotus leaves from the danger of being uprooted in a simple sentence; As for the daily habit of "flowers bloom and fall", Daiyu will feel pity for the fallen flowers, fearing that they will be wasted in vain, so Daiyu wants to bury them in the soil and melt with the wind. Daiyu is so good to these flowers and plants, how can she not be as good to people?

None of the ladies-in-waiting and maids in the Grand View Garden have the kindness of Daiyu and Zijuan. Daiyu and Zijuan are sisters. Although Daiyu didn't know Zijuan until she was 4 years old, Zijuan was willing to leave her hometown and parents for Daiyu, only willing to accompany her. Later, Daiyu became seriously ill, and Zijuan stayed with Daiyu until the last moment of her life.

On the other hand, the other ladies in the Grand View Garden have a good relationship with their personal maids, but they will never break the barrier between master and servant. They will care about each other, but they will never reach the feelings of Zijuan and Daiyu.

Besides, Daiyu showed the most kindness to others. Daiyu is never what people who don't know her think. Daiyu thanked the little girl Zhui Er who gave Daiyu tea and the old woman who gave Daiyu bird's nest on a rainy night. She also understood their hardships and difficulties, so she gave them a lot of tips. This may be a trivial matter, but it is also a gift from Daiyu.

Different people see different Daiyu, and Daiyu won't explain to them how she is. Daiyu still maintains her true colors and kindness in a complex society, so it is really good for Daiyu who knows the world and is not sophisticated. She won't be so sensible, but she will still be liked.

Third, Daiyu is everyone's pistachio.

When it comes to Daiyu, everyone's first impression of her is crying, but in real life, Daiyu brings us more laughter than when she cries. Because Daiyu's grievances and tears are silently borne by herself, but her joy has brought everyone.

Daiyu plays jokes on her sisters, which not only enhances their friendship, but also makes everyone happy.

Daiyu said with a smile, "Take him quickly and stew the preserved fruit for wine." Everyone is puzzled. Daiyu said with a smile, "Ceng Yun, an ancient man, used banana leaves to cover deer. He calls himself a guest under a banana, but he is not a deer? I want to make a deer breast. " They all laughed.

Daiyu's jokes are always very interesting, not only to quote the classics, but also very funny. In winter, Baoyu and Xiangyun barbecue for everyone in Xue Lu Temple. Seeing such an interesting scene, Daiyu also played a joke on everyone.

Daiyu said with a smile, "Where can we find this group of flower sons? That's all, that's all. Today, Lu Xueguang was robbed and humiliated by Yun Wench. I cried for Lu Xueguang! "

Daiyu said that everyone was a "flower son" joke, which was both appropriate and interesting, and everyone laughed. Delicious and fun, with Daiyu amused, there is really nothing better than this.

Daiyu is a girl who loves to cry, but she is also a girl who loves to laugh. She can easily find interesting things around her and then tell everyone in her unique way, just to make everyone feel the same happiness. Daiyu's love for life and understanding of the people around her became the most interesting thing in her heart. Isn't this Daiyu worthy of our love?

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