How to cultivate your social skills?

First of all, language ability is the most important. If you want to communicate well, you must have a strong ability to organize language. This can be cultivated through acquired training. At ordinary times, we should also pay attention to some sentences and have material, so that we can have strength and wit when we really communicate.

A good habit of cultivating language ability is to keep a diary and keep about 450 words a day. According to your own preferences, the number of words can be increased or decreased. Anyway, you must write something down.

Vocabulary symbolizes a person's literary talent level. Good literary talent will be appreciated by the other person's eyes and leave a good impression. Practice vocabulary, and more importantly, apply it. Confucius said that "learning from time to time" is practice, and old revolutionaries have repeatedly stressed that time makes true knowledge. This is the same reason. Take out your written notes, modify, modify words, modify sentence patterns, and strive for perfection. You can modify them many times.

You can read some books summarized by predecessors in your spare time. There are many versions of eloquence and communication, almost all of which have the same effect. Choose the one that suits you. The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu. On the one hand, you need to take it yourself.

When you meet a party organized by a friend, you must take an active part. Don't shirk. These are opportunities. Ability comes from practice. If you don't try it yourself, no matter how hard you try, it's just "drawing water with a sieve."

Don't play with your mobile phone while eating. I have met many unsociable people. It is disrespectful to others to hold a mobile phone while eating and avoid the topic of friends. Secondly, in the long run, the gap will become more and more serious and communication will be difficult.

Be good at asking questions: If you are not out of line, pay attention to distinguish gossip and ask about other people's hobbies. Start with hobbies, integrate into the circle, enhance feelings and cultivate chat topics. Be modest and learn to be an audience. Not everyone cares about your topic, so give others a chance to communicate and improve each other's communication.

Others leave a good impression of modesty, and workplace impression is very important. "If life is only the first time", the first impression is particularly important. Don't leave a bad impression on others when you go. More often, all people need is a listener.

Socialization requires modesty, putting down your identity, and more importantly, you have the consciousness of not being ashamed to ask questions, so that others will think you are "close to the people" and will be willing to communicate with you. Don't always think you are superior!