My boyfriend took me shopping with my mother, and my boyfriend rushed to pay the bill. My mother praised him for being sensible, but told me to break up quickly. Should I score?

Marriage is a very important link in life, and it is not easy to find someone you like and like yourself. Many people are completely different before and after marriage, so it is necessary to get to know each other well before marriage.

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My best friend Wang Lan and my husband Liu Chan met on a blind date. When we met, we thought it was not bad, so we left each other contact information. In the process of getting along, they found each other very interesting and later developed into lovers. When they feel stable, they want to see their parents. Liu Chan is very generous. He booked a high restaurant with a good environment. Liu Chan is good at talking, which makes Wang Lan's mother very happy. Wang Lan's mother looks very happy, and looks harmonious when eating. After dinner, it's time to pay the bill, but Liu Chan is not going to pay the bill, so Wang Lan considers paying the bill. Who knows, Liu Chan appeared and ran to pay the bill. Wang Lan thought such a scene would be a joke, so he didn't fight with him to pay the bill. Liu Chan also sent Wang Lan and her mother home, and Wang Lan's mother praised Liu Chan for being sensible.

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Wang Lan's mother called Wang Lan to the bedroom and wanted Wang Lan and Liu Chan to break up. Wang Lan was puzzled. Apparently, her mother praised Liu Chan just now. How can she break up with him now? Wang Lan thinks that Liu Chan is a very caring person, but his mother thinks that Liu Chan is a very stingy person, which can be seen from the payment. But Wang Lan was so involved that she didn't listen to her mother at all, and her mother couldn't help it. Liu Chan's parents were eager to have grandchildren. At their urging, Wang Lan and her boyfriend got married soon. But soon after getting married, Wang Lan regretted it. Because two people often quarrel over trifles, there are more and more contradictions between them.

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Liu Chan felt that Wang Lan was not gentle at all, not as gentle as before marriage, while Wang Lan felt that her husband was a different person. Before, Liu Chan was a gentleman and generous. Now, Liu Chan always loses his temper and has many bad habits. He is still a very stingy person, unwilling to give her money, and doesn't care at home at ordinary times. Wang Lan handles everything by himself. Wang Lan regretted not listening to her mother and felt that she had been cheated into marrying such an irresponsible person as Liu Chan. Liu Chan never pays his wife's salary. He gave all his money to his parents, and Wang Lan paid for his living expenses. Wang Lan knew why his mother said he was stingy, but he just pretended to settle accounts with her in order to marry Wang Lan as soon as possible. Liu Chan married Wang Lan, and now she doesn't know how to cherish it, which makes Wang Lan very angry. She wants a divorce.

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Getting married is not a trivial matter, we must think it over carefully, and don't regret it very much after getting married. If Wang Lan had listened to his mother, such a thing might not have happened. In the final analysis, we should listen to the opinions of adults, because adults are experienced people, who know more than young people and judge people more accurately. Of course, they don't completely listen to adults, so they should think carefully.