Ask Liu Yong's father's little daughter.

A very touching article-Daddy's Little Daughter-Daddy's Little Daughter (Liu Yong)

When I have a girlfriend in my teens, I am most afraid of meeting number two. First of all, it's her father. On the other end of the phone, there was a dull voice, "Who are you?" I was so scared that I forgot my name. Second, it's her brother Kaka Kaka and a bunch of heavy clogs. I know it's not good. The door opened, revealing a big face with a cross eyebrow and a pair of thick black hands, holding the door on both sides: "Who are you? Dare to soak my sister? " Needless to say, all boys should know the following words-"If you dare to come again next time, I will give you a good beating!" As for her mother, there is no need to worry. She is full of troubles, but she has a kind heart. She may ask your ancestors for eight generations, because she has envisaged marrying her daughter to you in the future. She may have glanced at you from head to toe, but there was an element of "appreciation" in that comment. No wonder as the saying goes, "The more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more interesting it is"? Curiously, when a little girl is looking for a boy, the situation is just the opposite. His father is always affable and smiling, but her mother is angry with the frost on her mask.

It's even worse to meet my sister. It is cruel, either sour or spicy, especially standing behind his mother and whispering stingy words, which makes the little girl fidgety. No wonder, since ancient times, there have been sayings that "mother-in-law is difficult to do" and "sister-in-law is difficult to do", but it is rare to hear such words as "father-in-law is difficult to deal with".

All this, to put it bluntly, is that the same sex repels and the opposite sex attracts. This is true between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as well as between parents and children.

Fathers often love their daughters, and mothers often love their sons. Although this is not the law, the proportion is always relatively high. In psychology, there is the so-called Oedipus complex, in which the son hates his father and his mother, and the Ilette complex, in which the daughter loves his father and his mother, especially when he is thirteen or fourteen years old. At this time, daughters and sons, in the eyes of parents, are becoming more and more different. The little girl who used to hang around her neck suddenly became a shy girl. There are many expressions, and there is always something hidden in my heart, which makes my father love him more. When my daughter is older, it seems that she can replace her mother more and more. She has learned to take care of her father, cooking, washing clothes, taking care of her father, and even talking with her father.

At this time, my father is always in middle age, and the passion of husband and wife in his youth has been dull; A middle-aged wife's language is no longer so elegant, and her appearance is no longer as beautiful as when she was young. Suddenly, in his daughter's smile, the father found his wife's shyness when she was in love. At the moment when her daughter's long hair fluttered, the old man actually returned to the teenager of Wuling Baima. The same is true of a son in the eyes of a mother. Problem children, once a duck voice, once a time, thick chest. When my friend called, I couldn't tell whether it was a boy or the voice of the host. Even when he called home, his son replied that his heart was shocked. How much the child looks like his father! His father was bald and stood up. Sometimes, the husband is not at home, only his son is around, and he feels more secure. Looking in the mirror is sad, because his youth is going away and wrinkles are hard to hide. When he was sad, his son suddenly put his arms around his mother from behind, saying that her mother was more beautiful than the girls outside, and he would like to marry a wife like her in the future. A few words, whether true or false, are so warm-hearted Occasionally the son said, "Mom! You look beautiful in black socks and short skirts! " Actually, unconsciously, I always wear that suit. After her husband's years of indifference, her self-confidence that she was about to lose was suddenly compensated by the little boy's words. However, such a lovely father's lovely daughter, mother's lovely son, who walked from his spring to autumn, always put his parents in his favorite child. One day, he met a man who was far behind, took him home and hurried away. Before his parents could see it clearly, he drove into his room and opened the door. The long hair flashed, the skirt feet swung, the tall and sturdy figure was the parents' favorite forever, and the little lover left a "bye-bye" and flew out the door. Standing in the door, the figure with two necks not straight enough is afraid of getting old in an instant. More or less, it is not the taste of taste. I am very happy that my child has grown up and can fly by himself. Sadly, strangely, the people in this family used to be too noisy, but now they are suddenly deserted. Hate: him! She! In fact, she seems to have dropped us from their "love list", from first place to second place. First place, turned out to be that dead girl, son of a bitch! Many years ago, an old friend called and said with a smile, "Holding someone else's future wife in your lap is really a great pleasure in life." I was surprised to know that he meant his little daughter.

I still remember reading an ancient joke collection when I was a child, saying that there was an old father-in-law, whose daughter was drinking with guests on the night of her wedding, and suddenly sighed: "Now think about that muddy boy must be very presumptuous!" I didn't feel much about these two things before. Now, my newborn daughter is only 4 years old, but she always thinks of them. What a ridiculous joke, but how true! There are tears, grievances and helplessness in laughter. Especially the old father who married his daughter, on the one hand, tried to deal with the guests with laughter, but it was difficult to accept the fact that his daughter "became a bed man."

I once attended a friend's daughter's wedding. An old friend who has always been uninhibited and loves to open a yellow accent took his daughter across the red carpet and gave it to the boy. Tears welled up in the girl's eyes when the groom put a ring on the bride. Looking back, her father, too, moistened his eyes.

Just, I thought: Are they crying the same thing? A father must be crying for the departure of his little angel.

Is the daughter crying for parting from her parents, or is she moved by the "gathering of love"? Compared with foreigners, China people are much harsher when they make trouble in their bridal chamber. Eating apples, picking beans, holding glasses, even like the movie "The Wedding Banquet" in which "Two people undress under the covers and throw them out", is just a foreigner's wedding, and there are the most malicious programs, which look beautiful, but erode to the bone. Cup after cup, singing and dancing, at the climax of the wedding joy, the music sounded and the guests applauded and cheered together. The groom put down the bride's hand, the bride walked to the center, and the father put down his wife and slowly walked over to his daughter, hugging and dancing. "Daddy, Little Girl", a song that everyone is familiar with, everyone sang softly together:

You are my rainbow, my golden cup, and you are my father's lovely little daughter.

Have you, hug you, my baby!

You are the star on my Christmas tree, you are the lovely Easter bunny, you are honey, you are the essence, you are the beauty of all things, and most importantly, you will always be my father's little daughter. ...

I often secretly pray that my daughter will not marry a foreigner in the future. Even if you are married, don't play this song at the wedding.

I know that when the music starts and my daughter holds my hand, my tears will roll down like broken beads.