My mother never celebrated Mother's Day.

# Mother's Day # # Mother's Day Pampering Action # I heard that tomorrow is Mother's Day, and suddenly I remembered my old mother. She hasn't had a Mother's Day. I don't even know what Mother's Day is.

She is an ordinary rural woman. She has been in that small rural area all her life, and she doesn't know many words. Now that it is popular to go out to work, she doesn't want to go out at all. She only wants to stay in that rural area where there are not many people. It is a place she is familiar with and feels safe.

She has three children, but she doesn't like children at all, because she can't talk well, and the atmosphere at home has always been so stiff since childhood that we still don't like her when we grow up. But as I grow up and understand my parents' hardships more or less, I will feel sorry for them, although I still can't show my love. More is silently in my heart.

Looking back on this nearly 3-year mother-daughter fate, although she has no education, she is not flattering, and her emotional intelligence quotient is not online. But when I think about my mother carefully, she still taught me the character of being hard-working, not afraid of being tired, and being willing to work hard. Before I went to college, I helped her do farm work. My mother taught me the most: We should live up to our expectations, and who will help you if we don't do it ourselves? Others are waiting to see your jokes and step on you (mainly because of the disharmony between brothers in their parents' families). Therefore, after my mother said these words, I couldn't find any reason to complain and escape, so I silently followed my mother to harvest in the fields, wash clothes and cook in the summer vacation. After finishing your own work, you have to follow your mother to help others to make money. Even sometimes my father feels sorry for us transplanting rice seedlings in the field on a hot day, fearing that we will be exhausted and burned out. But my mother is relatively cruel. Again, what can I do? Life is a little bitter, we can only rely on ourselves. So in my little heart, I always thought that I would never farm in the future, and I would study hard and go out of the countryside. Now that I have come out, my mother is still there, and there are her roots.

She is very frugal, and she cares nothing but eating well and dressing up. She is also very bitter, quarrelling with my dad all her life, and often fighting when she was a child, but I still remember the scene that my dad often has headaches and sometimes he is in poor health. She gets up early every day to make egg custard for my dad and put it in the pot when he comes back from work. When we grow up, we will be given this task to do this every day for several years. I heard that gastrodia elata stewed pigeons are used to treat migraine, so I will buy gastrodia elata stewed pigeons for my dad. My dad has a bad appetite in summer, so she cooks all kinds of dishes with soup for my dad every night. Writing here, I suddenly found that she has been paying all her life, but no one has been so kind to her. Therefore, after I came out to work, my dislike for my mother was mixed with many distressed elements, and I felt that her life was too hard and pitiful. I can't get the thoughtfulness of my children, and I can't enjoy the laughter of others and children.

She is also very stubborn, and her inability to communicate is unreasonable, which leads to our inability to talk with her. It may be the attribute of a daughter's natural cotton-padded jacket. Although she dislikes it, she is more distressed to understand it. Sometimes I just listen to her and don't refute it. After all, it's not easy for my parents' generation to drag the three of us to grow up and go to college. She is also very emotional. Every year after the Chinese New Year, we go out to work. Although she hates us going home and making noise, she will secretly wipe her tears when we leave home.

I still remember a few years ago, my conscience found that I suddenly wanted to follow the fashion. Why don't you tell her about Happy Mother's Day? I got up the courage to say it on the phone. Today is Mother's Day, and I can't say anything else. My family environment made me unable to express my feelings, and everything was silent. There was silence on the phone. After a while, I heard her voice choking and said that nothing happened. I hung up. I knew she understood and understood her. She knows the meaning of Mother's Day, and she can't face this sudden emotional scene. So we ended the phone call, but at that moment we realized that my mother was not what I thought. Unfortunately, I never expressed anything on Mother's Day again. The good way to treat them is to buy her a necklace, give her money and listen to her nagging. In recent years, I have also been worried about my personal life events. Gradually, they are more silent, knowing that they have suffered a lot of other people's words. However, the strong and independent personality inherited from childhood will not allow me to make do at will.

I also remember that I had a big fight with my parents because of these things the year before last, and everyone cried. She cried and said that she thought she had delayed me. She always felt that she had instilled too much in me to help me at home in the future. In fact, this has nothing to do with her, but is caused by my strong independent personality. If it weren't for the quarrel, I wouldn't understand that my mother suffered more silently than I thought. In addition to feeling distressed and helpless, I feel more distressed and convince myself to be more understanding and considerate.

We are still the mother and daughter who can't express their feelings. I believe many people are like us. How to say love? It's hard, maybe I can only do more for them silently, and pay more attention to their nagging when I have time. I hope her health is the greatest happiness.

May all mothers in the world be healthy and happy!