Why are some people doomed to be poor all their lives from the beginning?

Some people say that poverty is always a symbol of backwardness and the helplessness of life.

Franklin said, "I have never seen a diligent and honest man get up early and complain about his bad fate." Good character, good habits and strong will will will not be defeated by assumed fate. "

Being poor is not terrible. The terrible thing is that poverty is always used as an excuse.

Why do some people struggle in poverty all their lives, lose enthusiasm for life, and are full of yearning and pursuit for the future?

The poor are trapped in the mud pond and can't get out. Is this because of birth, education and knowledge?

I don't think so.

Most of the reasons why the poor are poor lie in themselves.

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Always use poverty as an excuse.

I like a sentence very much: "Our feet are stuck in the mire, and we must grow hard and grow forever before we can get ahead."

Poverty should be a driving force, not an excuse.

Speaking of relatives, I met a friend Li Yan. In their village, it is not easy for him to get into one book after another.

After all, this place is really poor, and it is a very proud thing to have a college student.

Li Yan can't find a job after graduating from college, and she doesn't want to go to that poor company. He can't get into those high-end companies either.

After two or three months, I saw a circle of friends. Before many friends exposed their employment information in a company, Li Yan became more and more angry.

Because his friends didn't study as well as him before, he always had a sense of superiority in front of those people.

Seeing that they all found jobs and they didn't, Li Yan was so angry that she died.

But later he attributed the reason why he couldn't find a job to his family. He thought those people found jobs because they had money at home and connections outside.

He can't find it because his family is poor. Didn't bring him an assistant

I have been wandering outside for more than half a year and haven't found a job yet. Every time he meets people in the village, he only wins sympathy and says, "Those people outside are relatives. We can't get in, and children in rural areas can't get out anywhere. " No money, it doesn't matter. "

It seems that as long as you can find a reason, you will reduce your incompetence.

Using poverty as an excuse is the biggest joke.

Poverty is not the cause of all difficulties, it should be the driving force, not an excuse for incompetence.

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Only reduce expenditure, not open source.

This is the habit of many people. They are used to saving the money they earn, and they usually scrimp and save, for fear that they will spend too much and have no savings.

Many people have a job with a sum of money all their lives.

Liu An and Cycle are employees of the same company, and their salary is similar.

On renting a house, the two had differences. The houses around the company are not cheap. The houses they rented before are too far away from the company. I have to go on the road every day.

Rent a house next to the company regularly. Liu An thinks it's too expensive here. She can get up early for work in the company every morning.

Six months later, Liu An was still a clerk, but she was promoted to supervisor again and again.

Periodically use the fragmentation time after work to improve yourself. During his regular study, Liu An takes a bus on the road.

The pattern and gap will be opened from this moment.

The poor just want to save money, but they never want to spend it on themselves for Qian Shengqian.

What is saved is death, but what can be spent is pattern and vision.

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Look only at immediate interests

The poor are short-sighted. At first glance, this sentence is a bit harsh. But it's true.

Because they care about their visible and immediate interests, while those invisible and long-term ones are easily overlooked.

Take reading as an example. Many people feel very good after finishing their studies, finding jobs and getting a fixed salary.

Because in this process, they get the exact salary, which is their visible benefit.

At work, they don't need to spend money to learn other things, and they may not get the money after learning, and it's useless to learn.

And when they see someone studying and making money, they will want to study, and then they will do the same.

They only take visible short things. A little profit can make them complacent.

Don't think deeply, and accumulate for doing bigger things in the future.

Summarized a sentence: afraid of losing money, afraid of breaking in, they don't accept any risks, they are all afraid, afraid of new things, afraid of investing in risky things.

Only when others make money will they act, but when they act, there is nothing left in the whole cake.

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Always lucky and stubborn

Many relocated households should know that the government occupied many people's land when they became monks in those years.

Some people can be satisfied, take the demolition money and subsidies and make plans for the next step.

And some people, always taking chances, feel that they can add a little more, that home is the only way, and it is not easy to bypass it.

Sitting on the ground, starting from the price, thinking that you can make a lot of money, friends and relatives advised: "Almost, this price is good enough."

He just wouldn't listen and stubbornly refused to accept compensation. In the end, people lost more of their land and abruptly bypassed it. He didn't get a penny.

A few years ago, it was popular to buy a house, and those with some money began to prepare for the wind.

However, some people are stubborn. This year's 14000 yuan is too expensive, and so on. I will buy it next year, next year 16000, and so on. This is too expensive, and it will definitely drop the year after next. Finally, it dragged on for five or six years, and the house was twenty-eight thousand. I laughed so hard that I can't afford it now.

The poor are always lucky, always waiting for the day of price reduction.

But is there really such a good thing? Is it really the same as buying at a reduced price?

Worry and hesitation are both reasons for the poor to hesitate. They always feel that the next moment will be lower than now.

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Poverty is panic, and wealth is pattern.

It may not be obvious what you say about a poor man.

But to say that the rich are extraordinary, there must be one thing, and that is the pattern.

The rich are far-sighted, and the poor are afraid.

The poor work as hard as the rich. Even sometimes, the poor work harder than the rich, but why can't they succeed?

The fundamental reason is that people go straight, you take a detour, and with the same strength, you are only halfway there, and people have reached the end.

The gap is getting bigger and bigger, which naturally forms a gap.

Poverty is panic, and wealth is pattern.

This is not a static thing. The poor have come all the way. What they want is your vision and will.

Where there is a vision, there is a pattern, and if you give up, you will gain.