My wife made my husband drink medicine and laughed at me.

Wife: I have a cold!

Husband: Oh

Wife: Oh, you don't care about me at all.

(2)

Wife: I have a cold!

Husband: Oh, then drink more water.

Wife: Drink fart water, water can cure a cold!

(3)

Wife: I have a cold.

Husband: Did you take your medicine?

Wife: Yes, it still hurts.

Husband: Oh, there's nothing we can do. We can only take it with us.

Wife: ...

The above scenes are often encountered by men. Similar scenes include "My husband has a stomachache" and "My husband is so tired". If you don't come back or don't come back well, your wife will be unhappy and think you don't care about her. How to answer this question better?

Routine: coping with emotions+taking action

First, respond to emotions

I have a cold and feel very uncomfortable. I told you my discomfort, but you didn't respond. Can I not be angry? This is what girls really think. So first of all, we should respond to her emotions and let her know that "you know she is sad".

Wife: I have a cold.

Husband: Oh, it must be hard.

Wife: Yes, the noise hurts.

Husband: That's hard to say.

Wife: Well, there is a meeting in the morning. I still try to be a quiet woman and talk less.

By responding to emotions, let the other person feel your concern. Many times, the other party doesn't want you to provide a solution. She also knows that a bad cold is inevitable, and taking medicine can't avoid it, and she won't get well immediately. She just wants to get your concern, and after getting your concern, she will get psychological comfort.

Second, take action.

Responding to emotions is the first step, and then we need to take action. We often fall into the misunderstanding that there are some problems that you can't solve, so we don't take any action. For example, girls say, I have my period and my stomach is upset. We may think, what can we do? You have to carry it yourself. But in the eyes of girls, this is indifference and cold-blooded. Therefore, something must be done at this time.

Wife: My period is coming. I have a stomachache.

Husband: Come on, give me a hug. Women are really hard. ..

Wife: Yes, there are several days every month.

Husband: Go to sleep. I'll get you a warm water bag.

Wife: Well, thank you husband.

Husband: You should move less these days, and my wife will instruct me to work more.

Wife: Honey, that's very kind of you!

At this time, as a man, you should pay more.

In fact, some people may say that such a small thing is still so complicated. Really! I think, whether it is true or not depends on whether you are sincere or not. When you are chasing her, I believe you are sincere when you do these things, but after so many years of marriage, you don't think it is necessary. But the passion in love is short-lived, and the long and complicated life after marriage is the main theme. These little things can't be handled well, and they have nothing to say for a long time, and they are strangers and have nothing to do with themselves. If handled well, small things become beautiful memories in ordinary life.