The father-in-law is sick and the daughter-in-law pays for the surgery. When she returns home, the husband angrily mentions divorce. Why is this?

Life always teaches people a lot of things inadvertently. Although the process is cruel and the results are not satisfactory, it is indeed an indispensable and important link in everyone's growth process, and for the relationship between husband and wife This is especially true for many times, the intimacy of the relationship between husband and wife trumps everything else, but in some cases, the strength of the relationship between husband and wife can only be described as "love is as thin as paper", and it will be broken into pieces when it is torn. It can be seen everywhere in life. When we are onlookers, we will be deeply moved. However, only when it happens to ourselves, we will feel the pain of despair.

After my father-in-law fell ill, as a daughter-in-law, regardless of the interests of the family, she resolutely used the couple's money to treat the illness and save lives. However, in the process, she did not tell her husband. After returning home, she briefly explained the situation to her husband, but she was met with misfortune. The husband blames the wife and even uses the excuse of divorce to ask the wife to get the money back. This kind of thing seems absurd, but it is a living example in life. During this period, there was a misunderstanding without a clear title, which also reflected the husband's indifference towards his wife.

When my father-in-law is ill, as a married daughter-in-law, calling her father-in-law "Dad" is a sign of a person's self-cultivation, recognition of her husband's family and her sincere desire to integrate into her husband's family. After getting sick, she immediately used her and her husband's savings to help her father-in-law with his medical treatment. This also shows how generous a daughter-in-law is. In these aspects, the daughter-in-law is qualified. However, it is because of the title "Dad" that The husband mistakenly believed that he was the woman's father, so he became furious and immediately asked his daughter-in-law to get the money back. This behavior is really shocking. Shouldn't the woman's father be seen when he is sick? It is estimated that this man should have similar thoughts in his mind.

As for the man himself, it is understandable that he is busy with work and cannot take care of his family, but he still does not know that his father is sick and needs to spend such a huge amount of money. After his wife told him about the situation, After that, the first reaction is not to understand the sick person, but to recover the money. At least two reasons can be seen. On the one hand, the husband is indifferent to his family, that is, he does not care how his wife gets along with his parents, nor does he care about the health of his family members. He even says he is indifferent to his biological parents. On the other hand, it is extremely selfish. After the money is spent, since it has become an established fact, both the woman and the man’s parents should see how the old man’s condition is at this time, rather than focusing on their own money. Don’t let it go, although money is hard-earned, its role is not just for living.

Life is not easy, and it is even more so for couples. They have to take care of their own small family and the families of both parents. In this case, the couple should Handle the relationship between money and parents and family. The man should not favor one over the other, and the woman should not only think about her mother's family, but should accumulate wealth for her newly formed family. Only when the couple's hearts are in one place, will they be able to cope with emergencies in the family of their original parents. Help will prevent new family conflicts from arising after helping. After all, the principle of filial piety is not only practiced by oneself, but also used to establish it for one's children to see and learn.