Why do you slander older women so much?

First of all, the word "older leftover women" expresses 100% complete disgust and criticism. To put it bluntly, there are some men in China, and women in the world will not marry even if they don't.

Don't ask what the ending of "older women" is, think about where your future ending is. Everyone has an ending, and everyone has some staged endings except the ultimate ending of "people are inherently mortal".

In Beijing, there are friends and colleagues from all over the country. When we are together, we always talk about our peers and people around us, including feelings, marriage, relations with family and so on. So, to sum up, I found that these "staged endings" listed below are actually very common all over the country.

One is scattered wealth marriage. Some young people are inexperienced, coaxed and scolded by their parents, and got married early, and both parents spent a lot of money; After the marriage, the young couple found that the marriage was too hasty and various problems emerged one after another. Who's afraid of who now? Who serves whom? Leave if you are unhappy. Then divorce, divide the property, and spend all the money given by parents. For a long time, although people are not leftover men and women, money is also tossed out.

The second is to dedicate marriage. Some girls, who had a group of girlfriends, friends and a career in the city, were very happy. Most of them have been humiliated by their parents and relatives. They couldn't help themselves and got married in desperation. However, I found that I have to go to work, do housework, raise children, take care of my husband, be filial to my parents and the other parents. My career was abandoned and my life was gone. A few years later, my husband cheated again.

The third is to prevent old children. These are not the phenomena of young people, but the phenomena of middle-aged and elderly people. Some old people raised a baby when they were young and got married. They have been happy for half their lives, but when they need children, they find that they simply can't meet the requirements of filial piety. In rural areas, the more children there are, the less responsibility they have to support their parents.

In fact, why should people raise children? Why did you get married? Is it for breeding? What is the difference between that and animals? Is it for the elderly? Then you might as well save the money for raising children and buy it into gold. When you are old, you will have enough capital to buy old-age services.

Is it to "have a companion when you are old, not alone?" Have you ever considered that this man cheated, betrayed and squandered your money before he was old? Wait, these risks? When we deposit money in the bank, we must consider the risks. There is no risk in getting married and having children? Once and for all?

In fact, raising children or getting married is to get daily happiness from building a harmonious relationship. Marriage is not for companionship, but because we share common values and can form a joint force. If not, marriage becomes an obstacle, so it is better not to get married; By the same token, raising children is not for supporting the elderly. You raise your offspring with the mentality of "raising children to prevent old age", and future generations will treat you with the mentality of "preventing old age".

In short, those who say others are leftover women, old people and old people should first think about whether their money is enough, whether their children are reliable in the future and how their spouses are. In short, think more about your own ending and worry less about other people's affairs.

Why are "leftover women" not actually "leftover women"? Personally, in China, sometimes it is not men but women who hate the so-called "leftover women" the most. It is not surprising that women often feel embarrassed. But why?

Probably because of jealousy. Because, as far as the so-called "leftover women" I know and those around me are concerned, they are all living well.

Some girls are very attractive. Although not married, there are many boys around. From the perspective of "sex", people's lives are very cool;

Some girls don't want to fall in love or get married at all. Every day, they are busy with their careers, study or travel. They have a rich family and a wonderful life. (Some people will ask: What shall we do in the future? Answer: First, do you need to worry? Did you do all the housework at home? Second, these girls are not short of money, life interest and career ability, and will only be happier in the future. )

Some girls are waiting and don't want to get married. I can't help it Great for most people. However, I would rather be single than get married. Throughout the ages, there are many examples of waiting for true love. However, on the other hand, if such a girl is not married in the future, it has nothing to do with those men who talk about "leftover women" all day, and there is nothing wrong with these men who don't respect women.

..... There are too many examples, so I won't list them one by one.

"Leftover women" and "being old and yellow" are the unique "malice of others" in China.

I made up the word "others are malicious" temporarily, because I don't think "jealousy" can convey what I want to express. What does "others are malicious" mean? Simply put, it is an act of "maliciously slandering people and lives different from their own values".

To say that others are leftover women, dislike dink, divorce and remarriage, and daughters, this and that are all "the malice of others."

Generally speaking, people who are "malicious to others" are often the bottom of society and losers.

Men who call others "leftover women" are often because they can't afford to climb, marry and reach;

Any woman who calls others "leftover women" is often nothing more than "married", with neither ability, taste nor quality.