A clumsy joke

Attack with text messages first. But remember, whatever you talk about, you must send it to her at a fixed time every day (or every other day or two). The word "fixed time" is very important. You should form a habit for her first. After a long time, she will get used to watching her mobile phone at that time every day, waiting for your news.

After listening to her preferences during the chat, you can choose to give her something on some special days, which doesn't need to be expensive, but let her like it. The most important thing is the process of giving gifts. If it's not a holiday, you can pretend to give it to her casually, saying that it's not careful is quite suitable for her. If it is a holiday, take Christmas as an example, you can hide the gifts in one place in advance (such as the bag cabinet in the school library). ), and then send her a message (humorous, for example,' Santa Claus has decided to give you a special gift, and you can send it to her to receive it as long as you say * * * three times before going to # #').

While doing this, we should pay more attention to her, not only physically, but also mentally. Everyone can understand the physical concerns. When I am sick, I want someone around me the most. Once you find out that she has any headache and brain fever, you should be attentive to her immediately. At ordinary times, you should also say something like' It's always raining recently, so be careful not to catch cold'. It's hard to observe the spirit. It depends on the landlord. When she is depressed, don't keep asking' what's wrong with you?' Just stay with her and tell some stories at the right time (don't tell any philosophical stories or jokes, the jokes at this time only make people cry. You can talk about your childhood, or what legendary things you have heard, or where a beautiful place is. Pay attention to your tone of voice, don't be too deliberate and weak, just like usual.

In short, we should start from the little things around us and gradually walk into her life. Some changes may not be discovered by herself. We should cultivate all kinds of new habits for her, so that she can get used to your existence and your company. If once she suddenly discovers your existence, she can't live without you, then the landlord will succeed.