How to deal with an unreasonable old man?

The most effective way to deal with an unreasonable old man is to stay away from him. Only in this way can his unreasonable behavior not interfere with you.

Because the other party is unreasonable, it will be useless no matter how close you are to him or explain the reasons for him, so don’t treat him with integrity, he won’t care, just let him be. alright.

When we are together with an unreasonable old man, it is like living in two worlds. He talks to you and does things on the same line, so even if he does something wrong, you can kindly point it out to him. , but it is still your fault, because it is an unreasonable old man.

If it is our relatives, such as parents, we have to understand, because sometimes the elderly, as they age, their physical functions will decline in all aspects, and some elderly people will suffer from deafness and tinnitus. In many cases, the elderly will appear to be nagging, self-righteous, and disrespectful. For such an old man, you have to be patient. You can ignore what he says, but you must listen. After listening, just don’t care. If you really want to reason with him, if he has a heart failure, Well, maybe there is a disease somewhere else. If you get angry all at once, wouldn't it be worth the loss?

So don’t reason with an old man. The older a person is, the more naive his mind is. After all, they have not lived in this world for a long time. When people enter their twilight years, their mood will change. They will be irritable. Some old people are helpless and love to nag. They like to magnify the things in their lives and make many people pay attention to them. In fact, if you think about it carefully, such old people are still very pitiful. , why do we have to reason with a poor old man?

So when we encounter an unreasonable old man, just listen with one ear and listen with the other. We still have to honor him. After all, honoring the old man is what we should do. He is no longer unreasonable. We should not be unfilial people. Only by being ourselves can we have a clear conscience.