Why is she like this?

I should be sensitive and timid, afraid that others will not agree with me and feel inferior. So I have fewer friends, so I treat you as a friend and am afraid of being separated from you.

The performance of inferiority complex:

Lack of basic self-confidence will make people lose sight of their own strengths, and then lead to the ideas of "I am not good enough", "I am not beautiful enough" and "I am dispensable to others". What are the symptoms when inferiority complex occurs? I believe many people don't know. Since I don't know, Bian Xiao will answer for you.

Excessive sensitivity and strong self-esteem. Vulnerable groups are eager to get the attention of others, afraid of being ignored and too concerned about others' evaluation of themselves. Any negative evaluation will lead to intense inner conflict and even distort the evaluation of others. For example, if others sincerely praise him, he will think it is sarcasm.

They are very sensitive, so we must be careful when dealing with them. A casual word from others will cause waves and random suspicion in your heart.

For example, my friend suddenly stood me up for personal reasons one day. What do you think: Why did he cancel the date because I was bored and made him feel that he didn't want to be friends with me? Or did I do something wrong to make him not want to see me? With this in mind, you may start to feel sad, want to know why you are treated like this, then cry to others, seek certainty, or choose to avoid meeting friends.

In fact, these worries and troubles only exist in your imagination, and friends are just anxious.

This idea may come from childhood experiences. When our children were young, our parents didn't care much and often criticized and scolded us. It may also be because they encountered some things in the process of growing up and did not deal with them in the right way, which led to the idea that they did not deserve a better life.