Did your girlfriend do something wrong at the engagement party?

You should pay for the engagement party. Besides, if a dish is not delicious, it's over. ……

Marriage is not only a matter for two people, but also a combination of two families. From your description, I think your girlfriend's parents can. If you are unhappy, you can send your parents to the car. This is the way of the world. If we all respect each other and give each other courtesy, things will be much easier.

I think you are more responsible. You didn't handle this emergency well, and you didn't communicate with your parents well before the engagement party. If you think about your parents, then your girlfriend also has parents. But it is also possible that your girlfriend has a bad attitude, which requires you to communicate with her well. Getting married and starting a family requires mutual accommodation. If you don't get married, you can't solve it well, and things will get more and more troublesome after marriage.