Small articles about mental health stories, it is better to tell people enlightenment.

I found some for you, hoping to help you

1. Mentality

A father and son saw a very luxurious imported car. The son disdainfully said to his father, "People who take this kind of car must have no knowledge in their stomachs!" " The father replied airily: "People who say such things must have no money in their pockets!

-does your view of things also reflect your true attitude?

2. The situation is different

A pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral. Once, the shepherd caught the pig, and the pig screamed loudly and resisted fiercely. Sheep and cows hate the pig's barking, so they say, "He often catches us, and we don't yell. "The little pig replied," Catching you and catching me are two completely different things. He only wants your hair and milk, but catching me is killing me!

-it is difficult for people with different positions and different environments to understand each other's feelings; Therefore, we should not gloat over other people's frustrations, setbacks and pains, but should have a caring and understanding mood.

3. On your own

The little snail asked his mother: Why do we have to bear this hard and heavy shell from birth?

mom: because our bodies are not supported by bones, we can only climb, but we can't climb fast. So we need the protection of this shell!

Snail: Sister Caterpillar has no bones and can't climb fast. Why doesn't she have to carry this hard and heavy shell?

mom: because sister caterpillar can become a butterfly, the sky will protect her.

Snail: But brother earthworm can't climb fast without bones, and he won't become a butterfly. Why doesn't he carry this hard and heavy shell?

mom: because brother earthworm can drill soil, the earth will protect him.

The little snail began to cry: We are so poor. The sky is not protected, and neither is the earth.

Mother Snail comforted him: "So we have shells! We don't rely on the sky or the ground, we rely on ourselves.

4. Sharks and Fish

Someone once did an experiment. The fiercest shark and a group of tropical fish were put in the same pool, and then separated by tempered glass. At first, the shark kept bumping into the invisible glass every day, but it was in vain. It could never cross the other side, and the experimenter put some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark didn't lack its prey, but it still wanted to go to the other side. Every day, it kept bumping into the glass. It tried every corner and tried its best every time, but it was always scarred. It broke and bled all over several times and lasted for several days. Whenever the glass cracked, the experimenter immediately added a thicker glass. Later, the shark stopped bumping into the glass, and paid no attention to the colorful tropical fish, as if they were just moving murals on the wall. It began to wait for the crucian carp that would appear every day, and then hunted with his agile instinct, as if returning to the sea, but all this was just an illusion. In the final stage of the experiment, the experimenter took the glass away, but the shark did not respond. Swimming in a fixed area every day, it not only turned a blind eye to those tropical fish, but even when those crucian carp fled there, he immediately gave up chasing and said that he didn't want to go there again. The experiment was over, and the experimenters laughed at it as the most cowardly fish in the sea.

-but everyone who has been lovelorn knows why. It is afraid of pain.

5. Miracles

In a remote town in France, it is said that there is a particularly effective spring, and miracles often occur, which can cure various diseases. One day, a veteran who was on crutches and lost a leg limped across the street in the town. The villagers next to him kissed back with sympathy and said, "Poor guy, is he going to pray to God for another leg?" This sentence was heard by the retired soldiers. He turned to them and said, "I'm not praying to God for a new leg, but I'm praying? Help me to know how to live without a leg.

-Imagine: Learn to be grateful for what you have lost, and accept the fact that you have lost. Regardless of the gains and losses of your life, you should always make your life full of brightness and brilliance, stop crying for the past, and work hard for the life of live high.

6. Fishing rod

An old man was fishing by the river. A child walked by to watch him fish. The old man was skilled, so he caught a basket full of fish soon. Seeing that the child was cute, the old man wanted to give him the whole basket of fish. The child shook his head and the old man asked in surprise, "Why don't you?" "The child replied," I want the fishing rod in your hand. "The old man asked," What do you want with a fishing rod? The child said, "This basket of fish was finished in a short time. If I had a fishing rod, I could fish by myself and eat it all my life. I think you will say: What a clever child. Wrong, if he only wants a fishing rod, he can't eat any fish. Because he doesn't know fishing skills, it's useless to have a fishing rod, because fishing is not important, and there are too many people in fishing skills who think they have a fishing rod in life and are no longer afraid of the wind and rain on the road, so they will inevitably fall on the muddy ground. Just as a child looks at the old man and thinks that as long as there is a fishing rod, there will be endless fish, and as a clerk looks at the boss, he thinks that as long as he sits in the office, there will be money to roll in.

7. The way of employing people

Anyone who has been to the temple knows that upon entering the temple gate, Amitabha Buddha is the first to greet guests with a smiling face, while in the north of him, it is Wei Tuo with a black mouth and a black face. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but were in charge of different temples. Miller Buddha is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and he doesn't manage his accounts properly, so he still makes ends meet. And although Wei Tuo is a cook in charge of accounts, he keeps a gloomy face all day, which is too serious, making fewer and fewer people, and finally the incense is cut off.

Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple, and Mile Buddha was in charge of public relations, smiling at guests from all directions, so the incense flourished. While Wei Tuo is impartial, and he will be better than others, so he is put in charge of finance and strictly controlled. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple is thriving.

-In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, there are no useless people, just like the master of martial arts. You don't need expensive swords, but you can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves. The key depends on how to use them.

8. Parrot

A person went to buy a parrot and saw the front sign of a parrot: this parrot can speak two languages, and the price is 2 yuan.

The other parrot was marked: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 4 yuan.

which one should I buy? Both of them are glossy, very flexible and lovely. The man turned around and couldn't make up his mind.

As a result, I suddenly found a parrot with an old tooth missing. Its coat color was dim and messy, and the price was 8 yuan.

The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages?

the shopkeeper said, no.

This person is strange: Then why is it so old, ugly and incompetent that it is worth this number?

The shopkeeper replied: Because the other two parrots called this parrot boss.

-This story tells us that a true leader is not necessarily strong in his own ability. As long as he knows how to trust, delegate and cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself, thus enhancing his status.

on the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionist and hands-on, and no one is better than themselves. In the end, they can only be the best researchers and sales representatives, but they can't become excellent leaders.

9. Kangaroo and Cage

One day, city zoo found the kangaroo escaped from the cage, so he held a meeting to discuss it, and agreed that the height of the cage was too low. So they decided to raise the height of the cage from 1 meters to 2 meters. As a result, the next day they found that kangaroos still ran outside, so they decided to raise the height to 3 meters again.

I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside again the next day, so the keepers were so nervous that they decided to raise the height of the cage to 1 meters. One day the giraffe and some kangaroos were chatting, "Do you think these people will continue to raise your cages?" Asked the giraffe. "It's hard to say." Kangaroo said, "If they continue to forget to close the door!" "

-management experience: there are "the root cause", "the severity" and "the urgency". Closing the door is the root cause, raising the cage is the end cause, and giving up the root cause and pursuing the end cause is of course irrelevant. What is management? Management is to analyze the major and minor contradictions of things first, understand the "background", "severity" and "urgency" of things clearly, and then start from important aspects.

1. Bian Que's medical skills

Wei Wenwang asked the famous doctor Bian Que, "Your three brothers are all skilled in medical skills. Which one is the best?"

Bian Que replied, "The eldest brother is the best, the middle brother is the second, and I am the worst."

King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?"

Bian Que replied, "eldest brother treats diseases before the onset of illness. Because most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his fame can't spread; Brother Zhong treated the disease at the beginning of his illness. Most people think that he can only cure minor ailments, so his fame only extends to his own village. And I treated my illness when it was serious. Most people have seen me perform major operations such as bloodletting on the meridians and applying medicine to the skin, so I thought that my medical skills were brilliant and my fame spread all over the country. "

-management experience: control after the event is not as good as control during the event, and control during the event is not as good as control in advance. Unfortunately, most business operators failed to realize this and waited until the wrong decision caused great losses before seeking compensation. Often, even if a well-known "airborne soldier" is invited, the result will not help.

11.

A guest visited someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove was straight and there was a lot of wood next to it. The guest told the host that the chimney had to be bent and the wood had to be removed, otherwise there might be a fire in the future, but the host didn't make any indication.

Soon the master's house caught fire, and the neighbors rushed to put out the fire. At last, the fire was put out, so the master cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle and entertained the neighbors to reward them for their contribution to the fire fighting, but he did not invite the person who had suggested that he remove the wood and change the chimney.

Someone said to the host, "If you had listened to that gentleman, you wouldn't have to prepare a banquet today, and there was no fire damage. Now, it's very strange that the person who gave you advice was not appreciated, but the person who put out the fire was a guest!" The host suddenly realized and quickly invited the guest who had given advice to have a drink.

-management experience: generally speaking, people who can settle or solve all kinds of thorny problems in the business process are excellent managers. In fact, this is debatable. As the saying goes, "prevention is more important than treatment", which can prevent problems before they happen and is better than treating chaos after they have become. From this point of view, the preventives of enterprise problems are actually better than the solvers of enterprise problems.

12. As usual, don't hesitate to lie down when you find the enemy plane diving. But the captain didn't lie down at once. He found a little soldier still standing four or five meters away from him. He didn't think much, and a diving fly pressed the little soldier tightly under him. At this time, there was a loud noise, and the splashed soil fell on them. The captain patted the dust on his body and looked back, suddenly stunned: the position where he was just now was blown into a big pit.

13. Going out

In ancient times, two brothers each went out with a suitcase. Along the way, the heavy suitcase overwhelmed both brothers. They had to change their right hands when their left hands were tired, and change their left hands when their right hands were tired. Suddenly, Big Brother stopped, bought a pole by the roadside and hung two suitcases on the pole. He picked up two boxes and went on the road, but he felt much more relaxed.

-It may be far-fetched to link these two stories together, but they do have striking similarities: the little soldier and brother in the story are lucky, but the captain and brother in the story are even luckier, because they help others as well as themselves!

-management experience: we will certainly encounter many difficulties on the road of our life. But don't we all know that on the way forward, moving the stumbling block under others' feet is sometimes just paving the way for ourselves?

14. Son of the Fish King

There was a fisherman who had first-class fishing skills and was honored as the' Fish King'. However,' Fishing King' was very upset when he was old, because his three sons' fishing skills were all mediocre.

So I often tell people my troubles: "I really don't understand, my fishing skills are so good, why are my sons so bad? I have taught them fishing skills since they were sensible, starting with the most basic things, telling them how to weave a net to catch fish most easily, how to row a boat without disturbing the fish most, and how to get off the net to invite the fish into the jar most easily. When they grew up, I taught them how to know the tide and distinguish the fish season. . . I have taught them all the experiences I have worked hard for years, but their fishing skills can't catch up with the sons of fishermen whose skills are worse than mine! "

after listening to his story, a passerby asked, "have you been teaching them by hand?"

"Yes, I taught them carefully and patiently in order to get first-class fishing skills."

"Have they been following you?"

"Yes, in order to make them avoid detours, I always let them follow me."

passers-by said, "In this case, your mistake is obvious. You only taught them technology, but you didn't teach them lessons. For talents, no lessons can make people great, just like no experience! "

15. Apples by the river

An old monk was surrounded by a group of devout disciples. On this day, he told his disciples to go to Nanshan to fetch a load of firewood. The disciples hurried to the river near the mountain, and everyone was dumbfounded. I saw the flood rushing down from the mountain, and I couldn't cross the river to get firewood anyway. Without success, the disciples were a little depressed. Only a young monk and the master are calm and opposite. When the master asked him why, the young monk took an apple out of his arms and handed it to the master, saying that he couldn't cross the river and get firewood. When he saw an apple tree by the river, I picked the only apple on the tree. Later, the young monk became a successor to the master.

-There are endless roads and rivers in the world. It is also a kind of wisdom to turn around when you can't cross the river. But true wisdom has to do one thing by the river: fly the kite of thought and pick an "apple". Looking at the past and present, those who hold such a belief in life have finally achieved the breakthrough and transcendence of life.

16. Holding your left hand with your right hand

There is a popular jingle on the table: Holding your wife's hand is like holding your left hand with your right hand.

Every time someone reads: A table full of people who are familiar or unfamiliar, they laugh knowingly, and the atmosphere is relaxed immediately. Of course, this is based on people's unanimous understanding of the jingle-accurate feeling and proper description.

One day at the dinner table, someone read this phrase again, and the men laughed as usual. Later, I found that a woman at the dinner table didn't laugh. Men are busy talking and joking. Don't take it seriously. I didn't expect the woman to say seriously: the best thing is that the right hand holds the left hand. First, the left hand is the most trusted by the right hand; Second, the left hand and the right hand belong to each other; Third, the other hand.