How college students become interesting people

How college students can become interesting people

1. Everyone hopes to get along with friends freely and be able to joke at any time, which makes them feel safe. Praising others often shows that you care and are attentive. Smile more and use generous body movements to let others feel that you are relaxed. Try to take it easy. If you are nervous, your friends will be nervous too, so relax.

2. Stop playing with your phone and make eye contact with your friends to make them feel valued. If you're distracted and seem distracted, people around you won't be able to relax and find it interesting.

3. Tell more jokes. As long as you don't mind looking silly, people will enjoy being around you.

4. Take the initiative to try new things and don’t make excuses to avoid them. If you can come up with fun new things to try, your friends will find it fun to be around you. Say "ok" more often. Don't always look for reasons to reject other people's offers.

5. Although everyone has bad days, you should share the good things with your friends instead of complaining.

6. Strive to let people in the group understand and recognize each other. Be a bond between friends and unite the friends around you. It doesn't matter even if you suffer a little loss.

7. Ask questions that can arouse everyone’s interest. Open a topic. You don’t have to think too hard to ask questions that people will want to talk about.

8. Interesting people usually recognize themselves and are willing to share their personal experiences and thoughts. If you are honest and generous, people around you will be the same, and the atmosphere will become relaxed and happy

9. Unless the thing you are complaining about is funny, don't spread negative energy. No one likes a killjoy. If you complain a lot, your friends will think you are boring. When you encounter something bad, you can write it down or tell a close friend, but don't complain loudly in front of many people.

10. Don’t be too serious. If you can laugh at yourself generously and be a clown for a while, people around you can relax and everyone will feel relaxed and happy.

11. Meet new friends

12. Find fun activities, including ball games, folk singing competitions and vegetarian festivals. Explore new places in your city and invite friends to go with you.

13. Whether it’s learning a new language or trying to run a 5K, try something you’ve never experienced before and you’ll be more interesting. The more things you know, the more diverse you are, which means the more experiences you can share with your friends.

14. Whether you are afraid of heights, clowns or puppies, you should overcome your fear, and then you will find that you are powerful.

Develop the habit of accepting new things. Maybe you have declined friends’ invitations to go hiking, paint, etc. in the past. Next time you should agree and see what you can do.

Next time you are at a party, find someone in the crowd who you think is very different from you. Take the initiative to introduce yourself and learn new things from him. If a performance requires willing participants, raise your hand.