Which hurts more, the truth or the joke?

Some people say that there is no such thing as a joke. All jokes have serious elements. How much truth is said in the joke, but people who don't want to understand will never understand it.

Yes, how many people want to express themselves sincerely, but they can't say it for various reasons.

I miss someone very much. I can't let go of reserve when I am awake, and I can't isolate myself from each other. So I will tell him everything I want to say with the help of alcohol after a certain drunkenness. Then wake up the next day, someone around you will say that you deny it and interpret it as drunken nonsense, but you know best that drunken nonsense is the most real truth.

I like someone very much, but I'm afraid I won't get the response I want. In the end, I couldn't even keep my friend's position, but I was vaguely unwilling. Maybe I know that there will be another possibility for each other. With such luck, I will choose to confess to him on April Fool's Day. If rejected, I can also smile and say: You are serious, I'm joking with you, hahaha. Then turn around and it will be a long-term loss.

Are you the same person? Those stubborn and against one's will can always be said easily, while those sweet words can never find a suitable opportunity to express them. They are afraid of their inner disappointment and that they will not get a response, which will upset the balance of their previous relationship. So many truths are spoken in a joking tone, expecting him to give a response, and at the same time laughing and saying, I'm joking with you to cover up my inner loss.