When I reached middle age, I realized: Extramarital affairs are not a shortcut to happiness. What do you think?

As the saying goes: clothes are better than new ones, but people are worse than old ones. It's just that Chen Shi understood this truth too late.

Chen Shi and his wife are a campus sweetheart and a young couple. The two were each other's first loves, and they accompanied each other through the most difficult times.

When he first started working, the seniors in the company envied Chen Shi and said that he was very lucky. In school, I met the person who will be with me for the rest of my life. Young couples always come for company. At that time, everyone patted him on the shoulder and asked him to cherish it.

Maybe happiness comes too easily. When the novelty of the wedding wore off, Chen Shi took all his wife's efforts for granted.

It is my responsibility to have children, and it is also my responsibility to do housework. In his view, a family consists of a man taking care of the outside and a woman taking care of the inside. Furthermore, his salary is no less than that of his wife. In order to support his family, he worked overtime all night, never forgot his wedding anniversary, and occasionally took his family on trips. He felt many families wouldn't even think of a day like this for his wife and children.

It should be the killer of all marriages. Even if the couple has a deep relationship, they cannot withstand consumption.

In the past 20 years, as Chen Shi's status has risen, the relationship between the two has become weaker and weaker, and they have nothing to say anymore. Although in front of outsiders, Chen Shi's marriage is still enviable, with a loving couple and a happy family, but in fact, Chen Shi has long been tired of this woman who talks about trivial matters and has an out-of-shape figure.

The human mind is always active, and money can accelerate it.

As Chen Shi had more and more social gatherings, he came into contact with more and more young girls. Unlike their time, young girls today are bold and fresh. Looking at them, his heart, which had been suppressed by life, gradually awakened.

Chen Shi cheated. Even though he was old enough to be the other's father, he was still attracted.

He spends more time buying flowers and jewelry than when chasing his wife. However, it has been a long time since he bought a gift for his wife. It's not that he doesn't buy it, but that his wife feels that she lacks nothing and thinks it's better to save money for emergencies.

Such a wife makes Chen Shi feel bored. He didn't understand what his wife was thinking about all day. He was only in his forties and still cursing himself for planning ahead.

It’s much easier to be with your lover. The other person will say something that makes him happy. In fact, even if he doesn't say anything, his young face will make him feel happy.

But life won’t always be comfortable. I forgot my lover's birthday because of work, just because this little thing is convenient for the company.

After another wave of turmoil, before my lover could suppress it, another problem arose in the work at hand. In fact, they are all small mistakes. But the company felt that his lifestyle had a negative impact and hinted that he would resign.

Chen Shi thought very well. He did not leave his position here, resigned decisively, and fought for his breath. However, after he told his lover about his resignation, he could no longer contact her. The man disappeared as if he had never been there.

Chen Shi was frustrated at work and love and returned to his home that he had not been to for a long time. As usual, he was clean and tidy, but he felt a warmth he had never felt before.

When his wife saw him, she was surprised. After learning that he hadn't eaten, she hurriedly cooked for him. At this moment, I really calmed down and thought about the real reason for my resignation. He finally understood why his exes made him love his wife.

Because the vision of those who have been there cannot be wrong. They know what a happy life is.

People always like to overestimate themselves, and it is easy to let down the people around them if they are blind.

Cheating is a knife hanging over a liar's head, you never know when it will fall. Some people always think that if they are careful enough, there will be no problems, so they just eat what is in the bowl and look at what is in the pot. I always feel that other people's wives are better than my own, but I often walk by the river without wet shoes. Finally, I encountered a problem and found that my lover was no longer in love, everyone was protecting themselves, and only my original wife and I were one.

Everyone should know that success and happiness do not require much intelligence. Only by being dedicated and cherishing can you take shortcuts.