In Fifty Miles of Peach Blossom Garden, there is a social death in the guest calendar. When you experience social death, how do you relieve embarrassment?

In such a social death scene, I usually pretend to be calm to ease my embarrassment. I don't know if you have ever encountered a social death scene. The so-called social death scene is something that makes you feel embarrassed in public. At that moment, you can't wait to find a place to get in. In fact, I have encountered such a social death scene. At the moment, I feel the skin on my face burning. The whole person was nervous and embarrassed, and at that time I really didn't know what to do.

So at that time, I quickly thought of a countermeasure, that is, pretending to be calm, in this way to alleviate my embarrassment at that moment. Through my personal experiments, I think this method is actually very effective, because when you are embarrassed, people around you will actually be embarrassed because of your embarrassment, that is to say, everyone can clearly perceive your emotions.

Maybe many times, others may not think there is anything wrong with this matter, but if you are embarrassed first, then others will be emotional contagion. Therefore, when you encounter such a scene of social death, first tell yourself to be calm, that is, no matter how embarrassing or embarrassing this matter makes you feel, you should behave lightly and tell everyone with your own performance, it doesn't matter. I don't care.

Then others will not take this matter seriously after seeing your reaction like this. Maybe some people will be too shocked to see your relatively relaxed reaction, but they will make a mountain out of a molehill. Therefore, as long as you are not embarrassed, others will be embarrassed, which is correct. First of all, you should keep calm. If you panic first, others will soon notice your mood and then make you feel more embarrassed.