"Softness" is the assistant of failure.

The process of striving for success is also the process of constantly overcoming interference and implementing one's own plan. In the meantime, the fearless spirit of "opening the road on every mountain and bridging the bridge when encountering water" is especially needed. Any indecision and vacillation caused by external interference will make you a loser who gives up halfway. If we want to avoid failure successfully, we must learn from Wang Anshi's spirit, "The changes in the sky are not enough to be feared, the ancestors are not enough to follow, and people's comments are not enough to worry about."

The failure of many people is to get lost in people's discussions, live for others and like their likes and dislikes; For the right and wrong of others, not right and wrong; I'm worried that a wink from others, a word from others, and even affect my decision. How to treat these things? In short, bite the bullet, bite the bullet and resolutely stay away from any interference that hinders your success. Don't change your mind easily.

During the Warring States Period, Song Xianggong was a "teacher of benevolence and righteousness", which led to the failure of the war with Chu. The kindness of a woman made Xiang Yu let Liu Bei go at the Hongmen banquet and finally had to farewell my concubine; Fan Zhongyan's political reform failed because he was too weak; Sun Yat-sen gave way to Yuan Shikai, which led to the failure of the 1911 Revolution.

Cases like this are enough to show that in the process of carrying out a great cause, we must abandon the soft-hearted style, otherwise success can only be abandoned halfway.

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