Both men and women should remember, what kinds of jokes should not be made between lovers, which can easily lead to a breakup?

Both men and women must remember, what kinds of jokes should not be made between lovers, which can easily lead to a breakup?

Many people want to talk about a love that does not break up, but the couple has been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be disputes. From passers-by to understanding, and then from lovers, we may think that even if everyone is in love, they must be the most important people to each other, and there should be no big problem in joking in daily life. However, it's usually some unintentional joke that leads lovers to strangers. Both men and women need to remember that there are three jokes that couples cannot open, which can easily lead to a breakup. Joke No. 1: Don’t make fun of the other person’s parents.

When you are in love, try not to talk about your parents. Everyone loves their parents and wants their parents to be respected and loved. It is often easy for couples to chat without face, without skin, without you and me. Sometimes they offend each other's parents and don't know, leaving cracks in each other's hearts. Naturally, parents who deliberately mock or offend the other person should not do it either. If you can't even pay attention to your parents, there's no point in being together.

In addition, when lovers argue, don’t speak ill of each other’s parents, such as “your mother didn’t teach you” or “your father is just a jerk”. I believe everyone will collapse when they hear bad words about their parents. . No matter how bad the subject's parents are, they are still his parents. He can make fun of his parents, but as a person, don't talk nonsense, otherwise it is easy to have differences with the target. The second joke: Don’t break up easily.

Some people say that people who break up often are actually the most reluctant to break up. They only use it because they feel insecure. "Breaking up" allows the other person to trick you and confirm that the other person still loves you. But I don’t know that breaking up every three days, breaking up over trivial matters, and nagging more can really make lovers physically and mentally exhausted. If you are physically and mentally exhausted and disappointed enough, you may really break up. This is certainly not the result you want. In a relationship, a perfect adult should usually keep his temper in check.

If you really love the other person, you have the other person in your heart. When there are disputes and differences, no matter how intense the dispute is, don't break up irrationally. After the dispute is over, calm down, think about your reasons, and then think about whether he is at fault. Don't blame all your mistakes on the other person and throw yourself away. This will only make you more and more inclined to get into trouble, which is not good for love. Joke No. 3: Don’t talk about your ex all the time.

Many men and women, even if they have a current relationship, always like to talk about their exes. Some people show off how good their exes are, and some people laugh at how hateful their exes are. But whether it's showing off or ridiculing, it's not good for the current relationship. Showing off your ex will make you feel that you are dissatisfied with him, so you will miss your ex and make your ex feel inferior. Laughing at your ex can make you feel like you're bad or even that you broke up with them.

Both men and women have new relationships, so it is best not to mention past relationships. There is a saying that goes, "An ex who meets the requirements should die like death." Keeping your mouth shut quietly is the greatest respect for the present. The object must be EQ, IQ and skills, don't think why the joke can be opened, some jokes may destroy your love.