Is it right or wrong for women to keep forbearing in marriage?

There is a great emotional gap between husband and wife in many families, and some marriages are in serious crisis or even exist in name only. Although at this point, there are still many couples who are worried in all aspects. In order to preserve the integrity of your family, you can bear all kinds of pain and suffering. In order to maintain a broken marriage, you are willing to be a tragic hermit, and you have paid a painful price for it. So, what about ninjas in marriage? The answer is no.

From acquaintance, love to marriage, men and women are in love, two of a kind. It is with this kind of affection that they spend their lives. When they live together, they feel the joy and happiness brought by love and experience the warmth and beauty of their interdependence. Without these premises and foundations, it is a kind of pain and suffering to walk behind marriage.

But there are quite a few couples in life, either influenced by social traditions or considered from many aspects. When the marriage was broken and unbearable, they still endured humiliation and compromise, and maintained and preserved the marriage they hated with great patience. There is a couple living in the same village. They work together in a small town. The husband does odd jobs and the wife does sales. Although my wife comes from the countryside, with her diligence, hard work and hard-working spirit, her sales work is booming, her performance is outstanding and her monthly income is quite good.

And the husband, it is a hammer in the east and a hammer in the west. He didn't earn much money in January, but he was captured by all kinds of temptations in the city. He is riddled with five poisons and often makes ends meet. He is totally dependent on his wife. If you are slightly dissatisfied or refused, you will be ruthlessly hit and destroyed. The cost of a husband looking for a lover outside is her hard-earned money, which is unbearable. In this regard, everyone advised the girl to give up this bad marriage, but the girl and her family were influenced by traditional ideas and thought it was a joke in the same village.

Even mistakenly think that it is normal for a husband to beat his wife, there is nothing to make a fuss about. To this end, she has been suffering from physical pain and internal humiliation, enduring this absurd marriage. Home is undoubtedly a nightmare place for her, and every time she goes home, it seems to be a test and courage. I really don't know what's the point of enduring it like this. Nothing but hurting yourself from the inside out, forbearance will only make the situation worse and worse, make each other worse and make life more terrible.

And the love between men and women must be equal and respect each other, which is the minimum and the most basic. There is no pecking after marriage. Husband and wife together is not like the state of mutual respect and harmony in ancient times, but at least in a family, the relationship between husband and wife must be equal. From the sense of family responsibility, we should all think of each other and make the marriage sweet and harmonious based on the happiness of the family and each other.

For those couples in the family who don't care about each other at all, ignore each other's existence, and even regard each other as their private property and accessories, they are free to dominate and drive, and their emotions are determined by their own wishes, without considering and caring about each other's experiences and feelings. For such a family environment, having a home is better than nothing. Once misfortune happens, if everything is not reversed and changed, where is the personality and dignity of living in this environment for a long time?

As the saying goes? Can a scholar be killed without humiliation? Treating humiliation is as important as treating life. Imagine how difficult it is for a person to live in a humiliating environment without personal dignity for a long time. But there are many lovers in life. Although living in this state completely, I don't have the conditions to leave each other, or I am hesitant and worried. From all aspects, they are always reluctant to get rid of this family environment and choose again. Instead, just be patient and let an unworthy marriage linger on, which is difficult to maintain.

Once upon a time there was a couple. Although they were poor at first, they loved each other, cared for each other and lived in harmony and happiness. However, it may be because it is often said that poverty changes. By chance, her husband contracted a small township enterprise and soon turned a profit. In order to support her husband's career, her wife gave up her job, became a full-time wife, and threw herself at home to reduce her husband's pressure and burden and create a comfortable and warm life for her husband.

In this way, the factory is getting better and better, the benefits are showing, and the husband is beginning to become rich and powerful. However, with the increase of his wealth and the gradual prosperity of the economy, the husband himself is quietly changing and gradually ignoring his wife, leaving him alone at home. Not only is his clothes tight, but his mouth is full of food, and he is critical of his wife, domineering and bossing around.

And his wife is humble, Nuo Nuo only Nuo Nuo, only Nuo Nuo, only Nuo Nuo. How humiliating and despicable this is. What is the most intolerable and unacceptable word? Food and clothing, lust? With a few stinky money in her husband's pocket, she began to flirt around, constantly looking for lovers and mistresses, and even exaggerated and sometimes blatantly did not shy away from her wife. For this situation, any woman has zero tolerance, which is unbearable and will resolutely give up this humiliating day.

However, the wife has adopted infinite tolerance and unprincipled concession to her husband. For this abnormal relationship between husband and wife, I have to bear the burden of humiliation and submit to humiliation. Imagine the value of such a married life. It has no practical value except to make yourself feel hurt and humble. If I continue to endure it, the result will get worse and worse, and the future life will be really unimaginable.