People with heavy feelings are the most vulnerable.

People with heavy feelings are the most vulnerable.

People with heavy feelings are the most vulnerable. Attaching importance to feelings is a good thing, but it is also a bad thing. People who value feelings will give everything in love, which is good when they get something in return, but easy to get hurt when they don't get something in return. Next, I'll take you to understand the related content that people with heavy feelings are most likely to get hurt.

People with heavy feelings are the most vulnerable 1

1, maintaining a relationship is like raising a cactus. If you pay attention to it every day, you will want to water it, and you can't help fiddling with its plates. However, this cactus doesn't need much water, and it can't move around all the time. It was a good thing that you paid attention to him, but because you paid too much attention, you finally died under your care. You must feel very hurt when you look at the dead cactus. You obviously care. You obviously value it. As a result, it died without nostalgia. ...

Cactus actually doesn't want to die, just because you care too much, it can't bear this kind of "concern" that threatens its life. Cactus is associated with today's theme "People who value feelings are the most vulnerable", and I believe many people can understand why.

People who attach importance to feelings give too much love and pay too much, and sometimes pay as humble as dust. It seems that this is an expression of indifference to feelings, but it is not the case when it comes back to reality. A person who doesn't love himself is often ignored by others. Because you are always paying, others forget that you originally needed care, and you also need others to pay for yourself.

2. A sentimental person always thinks of others. You know it hurts when you fall. When you see someone fall, you will help them quickly. But you fell down, but you were afraid of bothering others or thinking of you, so you said "it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter" and got up in a little pain, even though you were covered in blood, pretending nothing happened.

Sometimes, I feel sorry for people who attach great importance to their feelings. They always think of others and forget themselves. Others will believe what they say casually and even give their lives for others. It's always easy to be satisfied, but people who attach great importance to their feelings will take it seriously if others just say a joke, and then fall into their own thoughts, making them feel extremely uncomfortable and vulnerable!

However, even if he is injured, the sentimental person is still stubborn. Sticking to the broken relationship, he felt that others would value it as much as himself. He feels that he still has some things to do badly, living in his own "guilt" and gloomily immersed in his own pessimism. He seems to be a heartless person in front of others. In front of others, he seems to be a great man who asks for nothing in return. Only in the dead of night did he dare to show his sadness and secretly feel sad.

3. Attaching importance to feelings is a good thing, so it is easy to give people who know how to cherish a sense of security from feelings, but when they meet people who don't know how to cherish, this emotional personality is bad and easy to be used. It's easy to get black and blue all over yourself. Therefore, while attaching importance to feelings, we should also leave some emotional space and love for ourselves. Don't ask for anything in return when you should pay, and don't pay silly attention to others when you should love yourself.

People are equal and never exist. If you love others more, you will be humbler than others. A good relationship belongs to two of a kind, and any relationship in which only one party pays will not have the expected results.

Dear, from today on, don't let yourself continue to be the person who values feelings too much, don't let yourself continue to cry in the quiet night listening to sad songs, don't always lick the wounds in your corner with sadness, and don't continue to hide all your worries in your heart ... You are just an ordinary person. You are not great. Nothing will be lost if you are selfish once in a while. If you meet someone who is really kind to you, he will meet you even though you have many shortcomings. So, don't feel sorry for those who leave you because of a little thing or a word.

People who value feelings are the most vulnerable. 2 1, full devotion, in exchange for carelessness.

People are always different. Some people pour out their hearts to others, while others do their best to others. Some people think that you are good and can give everything for you as long as your life is good; Some people look at you, approach you, approach you, just for your own good, not really for your own good.

A girl met a boy. The girl fell in love with the boy. The boy just fell in love with the girl's money, but he didn't really fall in love with the girl. He just wanted to associate with the girl. Girls give their heart and soul, boys just perfunctory, even if they are together soon.

After a period of contact, girls still see something, and boys' spending is limited. I just didn't expect that this actually led to the killing of girls by boys. After coaxing the girl into buying insurance, she tricked the girl into going out in a way of consolidating her feelings, and as a result, she pushed the girl off a high cliff.

A beautiful, outstanding and thoughtful girl fell into a man's trap until she died. The reason for this is that the softness and emotion in the girl's heart have blinded her sense and vision.

The girl is not really stupid, but cares too much about this relationship and longs for it to blossom and bear fruit. Because I trusted him, I thought that if I really paid, I would get something back. However, real life is far more cruel and cold-blooded than beautiful fantasy. Dedicated, in exchange for ruthlessness, and ultimately hurt yourself.

2, full of trust, in exchange for conspiracy calculation

It is not easy to see a person clearly. The test time is longer and the heart-to-heart communication speed is slower. Although there is no distinction between people, there is still a difference in texture between heart and heart, and not everyone can treat each other sincerely.

Innocent small mistakes can be tolerated, but serious personal injuries cannot be ignored. Don't let sincere enthusiasm and full investment get heartless and others' cold face; Don't let full trust be exchanged for intrigue and calculation, so you will regret it and be sad.

A Qiang, who went out to work and returned to his hometown, wanted to start a business with his former friend Xiaodong, so he took out all his savings and prepared for a big fight. The result was all gone, and the culprit turned out to be the good brother he always thought, which made him lose all his money and made him realize that the real human heart was sinister.

In his own words, Xiaodong is a warm-hearted, helpful and cheerful person. Although he is not very generous, he takes care of his friends in other ways, so trust him. But when the enterprise was handed over to Xiaodong, Xiaodong spent a lot of money and lived a good life, but the enterprise closed down.

In fact, this feeling of letting a hundred flowers blossom has long been riddled with holes. One only gives, the other only takes, and as a result, one is down and out, and the other is prosperous. It's not terrible to give without returning. The terrible thing is that I sent a sincere heart, but I was brought back with a knife.

3, do your best, in exchange for getting worse.

Any emotion must have boundaries; Any effort should be limited. Without scale, you can only get the aggravation of others. Friendship is like this, so is family. Only when you fall heavily do you know that scratching the skin is nothing; I didn't know until I experienced life and death that drinking medicine was actually not that bitter.

There are a pair of brothers and sisters. My sister was taught to take care of her brother since she was a child. So since college, she has been working at home to save money for her brother. Even if she doesn't eat well and dress well, she is too tired to move every day. She will stick to it, that is, let her brother live a better life.

Later, I graduated, worked and got married. My brother was admitted to the university, but he was addicted to games. All he knows is to ask her for money and neglect his studies. However, her work with her husband is still good, so she didn't care about her brother's nonsense and insisted on helping him.

However, after graduation, my brother couldn't find a good job because of his poor academic performance, and he didn't want to start from the bottom. He is addicted to online gambling and keeps asking her for more and more money. Later, he talked about his girlfriend and asked her to help him buy a house directly. At this time, my sister knew that her efforts finally overwhelmed her.

Looking back, tolerance and protection became a complete tragedy. Pay attention to feelings, want to help a person, but also pay enough. Your bottomless reward will only make him ask for more. Laziness and greed in human nature are often not appreciated and rewarded.

Emotional people are the most vulnerable.

There is a saying that the old lady eats persimmons and only chooses soft ones. The same is true of people who have no gratitude. The more serious you are, the worse you will lose. The more you care, the deeper you will be hurt. People who value feelings are always the most vulnerable.

Emotional pay, always leave some space not to fill. Don't let your efforts be exchanged for each other's ruthlessness; Don't let your full trust, in exchange for each other's conspiracy calculation; Don't make your best efforts worse. Emotional struggle is to leave one point for yourself and one point for others.

A sentimental woman, the most vulnerable sentimental woman,

Once you fall in love with someone,

All wisdom is sidelined,

Lose pride and dignity, humble to the dust,

Even if it is scarred, a word from the other party can make her return to her original position immediately.

A sentimental woman,

Afraid that the other person will leave him,

So, she was desperate to give everything,

I dare not ask for it, and I don't know how to ask for it.

She is afraid that she is not good enough to make the other person unhappy.

A sentimental woman,

Living in my own script,

Obviously, this is an emotional drama between two people.

Still struggling, performing a one-man show,

Everyone knows the plot, but she is still strolling outside the theater.

A sentimental woman,

I thought I was nice to him,

You can get his love and sympathy,

He took her contribution for granted,

After a long time, her heart is tired, and a person suffers endless pain.

A sentimental woman,

There is no thunderbolt, only the bodhisattva's heart,

I would rather be wronged by myself than others.

She always likes to think simple things are complicated.

Worrying about the future too early is not only useless, but also often makes you unhappy.

A sentimental woman,

In fact, the most vulnerable,

She pinned her happiness and future on others,

But whether he can accompany her for several seasons is still unknown.

Once faced with betrayal and unable to find a fulcrum in life, she will have nothing.

A sentimental woman,

No problem. What is wrong is only choice.

It's not worth loving someone until you lose yourself.

We must love ourselves before we can give others love.

If you love someone, give him seven points and leave three points to love yourself.

If you break a heart, just give him seven points, and the remaining three points hurt yourself.