Going out is always narcissistic and narcissistic, and I always giggle myself. Is there something wrong with me? How should I change it?

You are your own personality. Relatively speaking, a narcissistic person is still excellent, which shows that he has narcissistic capital and is more likely to succeed. You don't have to force yourself to change it.

Narcissists can usually be described by the following adjectives: arrogance, superiority, particularity, vanity, sense of power, exploitation, lack of empathy and self-appreciation.

In most cultures, narcissism is not a compliment. However, a recent psychological study abroad pointed out that the more narcissistic people are, the faster they are promoted in the workplace and the easier they are to succeed.

Why is this happening? There are three main reasons:

(1) Promotion of "Impression Management"

A common way of success is called "impression management":

That is, the use of self-promotion (such as emphasizing their outstanding performance and achievements) and flattery (such as flattery, helping others, being very likable) and other strategies. Manage the impression of superiors or authorities on us, so as to achieve the purpose of promotion.

Simply put, it is to disguise yourself. Of course, this impression management strategy needs social skills and emotional intelligence, otherwise it will be naive.

Psychological research shows that narcissists have social insight (that is, they are sensitive to rank and status). They are good at figuring out other people's psychology and managing their own impressions, interacting with people with high status and leaving a deep impression on them.

(2) Leadership identity theory

A behavioral psychology study shows that if a person shows typical leadership behaviors (such as ambition, power and awe), then he is more likely to be regarded as a leader by people around him.

Narcissists attach great importance to power and status, and they will show their leadership behavior consciously or unconsciously, thus making their leadership path smoother. Many of them have successfully climbed to the top of the organization. Soon.

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