A man in a teahouse in Guiyang cuts people down if he doesn't agree with a word. What is the cause of the dispute?

A man in a teahouse in Guiyang cuts people down if he doesn't agree with a word. The reason for the argument is just a joke.

It happened on September 27th 19, in a teahouse on Xianren East Road, Dongshan, Guiyang. Two people had an argument because of a joke. A man picked up a kitchen knife in a teahouse and cut another man's hand. After the incident, the police in the jurisdiction rushed to the scene at the first time and took the proprietress and others away for investigation. At about 20: 40 on September 27, the owner of the teahouse was splashing water in the shop to sweep the blood on the floor. On the road in front of the door, a police car is parked and several policemen are investigating the situation. Onlookers are talking about it.

An old man said: "The tendons of both hands broke two sentences, and blood flowed all over the floor, as if it hurt the bones." After the incident, the injured had been sent to the workers' hospital for treatment, and the kitchen knife had left before the police arrived. An eyewitness said: "The two are about the same age, both in their forties and fifties." At the time of the incident, the witness was also in the mahjong room and heard the quarrel. When he looked sideways, he happened to see the man chopping people with a knife. According to witnesses, the knife used by the man was a kitchen knife in the teahouse. The kitchen knife was hidden in the basin at that time. At the time of the incident, the proprietress didn't seem to be at the scene.

At about 2 1 that night, the proprietress of the teahouse closed the mahjong hall after sweeping the floor, and the police in the jurisdiction took the proprietress and others away for investigation. A neighbor said that there are five or six old-age tea rooms in this small street. Mahjong sounds very popular at night, but mahjong disputes also occur from time to time. An aunt said: "Both of them live in the same community and are familiar with each other. Maybe they were drunk. One of them made a joke and got angry when he opened it. " The aunt also said that here, everyone plays one or two yuan of small mahjong. Unexpectedly, playing a small mahjong is still life-threatening, which is really not worth it.

In fact, this case is thought-provoking. Obviously, these two people are very familiar with each other, but because of a joke, they fought and even caused bloodshed, which is really not worth it. In daily life, when we have conflicts with people, how should we resolve them? In fact, just pay attention to the following points:

First, avoid contradictions, so as not to continue to escalate. However, in some cases, this avoidance will also make one party more angry because of its avoidance, aggravate contradictions and conflicts, and also reflect the anxiety and fear of the evasive party in solving difficulties and setbacks.

Second, look for opportunities to communicate again, and skillfully find the right time in life, such as breaking in when others are around and forming unintentional communication. This is the first step, and there will be opportunities for reconciliation in the future.

Third, learn to be tolerant. No matter who you are, you may make mistakes. When others make mistakes, you should also learn to be tolerant and not haggle over every ounce.