My child 14 years old, almost rebellious. I'm worried. What are the causes of adolescent rebellion?

Speaking of rebellious period, what we are most familiar with is the various manifestations of children after they enter adolescence. At this time, children are often rebellious and disobedient, and the difficulty of various education is greatly increased. This time is the biggest headache for parents, because children do not listen to discipline and do things without considering the consequences, which is prone to various contradictions.

? How big is the rebellious period of adolescence? The rebellious period of teenagers is generally about 6 years; Usually between 12 and 18 years old.

Every teenager's rebellious period is different. Some people may experience a longer rebellious period. Generally speaking, the rebellious period of teenagers aged 12 to 18 is called "rebellious period of youth". Different times have different personalities. Characteristics of psychological development and physical development.

Teenagers who are generally in a rebellious period, because their hearts are in a transitional period, their sense of independence and self-significance are increasing day by day, and they are eager to get rid of their parents' guardianship and don't want their parents to treat them as children. Express their own differences, but also have a strong rebellious attitude towards everything.

? The reason of teenagers' rebellious period: 1, the influence of teenagers' psychological characteristics.

Teenagers are in the psychological "weaning period", their sense of independence and self-awareness is increasing day by day, and they are eager to get rid of the supervision of adults. They object to adults thinking of themselves as "children". In order to show their "maturity", they tend to be critical of everything, and at the same time worry that the outside world will ignore their maturity and independence, so they establish this point. Getting status through "unconventional" behavior and words is easy to produce rebellious psychology.

2. Improper parenting style

Some parents want their children to become better and are very enthusiastic about their education. Whether you like it or not, children are forced to participate in various interest classes, and children are prone to contradictions and even hostility.

3. Social factors

The change of social and economic system, the development of ideas such as culture, morality and law, and the renewal of ideas such as good and evil, beauty and ugliness, right and wrong and honor will all affect the psychological activities of teenagers. And shame and all that. Especially nowadays, the society is changing with each passing day, which can easily lead to teenagers' rebellious psychology.

4. Lack of communication with children

Maybe some parents seldom talk to their children and communicate with them because of their busy work. They just made some strict rules to limit children's behavior. Therefore, teenagers do not have a harmonious and warm family environment, lack communication with their parents, and are prone to rebellious psychology and behavior.

5. Educational methods of school teachers

Some teachers don't understand the psychological characteristics of high school students, condescending, guiding students how to think and do, and don't communicate and explore with students at all, which is easy to cause students' rebellious psychology.

6. Social shock

Some improper exaggeration of mass media is also a factor leading to rebellious psychology. For example, some film and television works try to beautify the rebel's personal behavior, exaggerate the rebel's ability and advocate individualism. Many high school students appreciate the "rebellious heroes" depicted in TV and cartoons.