How can I become a cheerful person? How can there be no trouble in the sky? Have a sense of humor?

How can I become a cheerful person? How can there be no trouble in the sky? Have a sense of humor? If you are cheerful, first, always smile. Laugh more, and you will naturally be cheerful. Second, think more about the good, enlarge your heart, and don't pretend too much. Trouble is mainly thinking too much, right? Then don't think too much, but believe that "everything will work out in the end." Humor is acquired. Let's see how to adjust the atmosphere.

How can I become a person with a sense of humor? How can I make myself humorous?

This question is just like "how naive". It's hard to answer.

I thought about it and thought that humor is a kind of human nature. This does not mean that humor is innate. Of course, optimism is a natural feature, and this optimism often changes with the change of environment. When things go well, I naturally feel that everything will go well; If things don't go well, your mood will definitely be affected.

How to cultivate a sense of humor

Humor is a special emotional expression. It is a tool for people to adapt to the environment and one of the ways to relieve mental and psychological pressure when people face difficulties. Russian writer Chekhov said: People who don't know how to joke are hopeless. It can be seen that everyone in life should learn humor. A little more sense of humor, less panic, less paranoia and extreme, less life-and-death

Humor can dilute people's negative emotions and eliminate depression and pain. People with a sense of humor, life is full of fun, many seemingly painful and annoying things, but easy to deal with. Dealing with troubles and contradictions with humor will make people feel harmonious, happy and friendly. So, how to cultivate a sense of humor?

Understand the inner meaning of humor, point out the shortcomings or advantages of others quickly and tactfully, and affirm or deny them with a smile. Humor is not glib, nor is it sarcasm or satire. As a celebrity said, impetuous, pretentious, stubborn, lacking in resources, dull and clumsy, it is difficult to be humorous. Only when you are calm, treat others equally, be aloof, be smart and thorough can you be humorous.

Broaden knowledge, humor is a manifestation of wisdom, and it must be based on rich knowledge. Only when a person has the ability to assess the situation and extensive knowledge can he be rich in conversation and interested in Miao Yan, thus making an appropriate metaphor. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, it is necessary to read extensively, enrich yourself, constantly collect humorous radio waves from voluminous books, and extract humorous gems from the essence of interesting stories of celebrities.

Cultivate sentiment, face reality optimistically, and humor is a manifestation of tolerance. To be considerate of others and learn humor, we must learn to be generous, overcome haggle over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. Optimism and humor are close friends. If there were more fun and relaxation, more smiles and games, more optimism and humor in life, there would be no insurmountable difficulties, and there would be no people who would be sad all day.

Cultivating profound insight, improving the ability to observe things and cultivating the ability of wit and agility is an important aspect of improving humor. Only by grasping the essence of things quickly and using appropriate metaphors and humorous language can people feel relaxed. Of course, at the same time of humor, we should also pay attention to the importance of not being careless, treat different problems differently, and be extremely flexible in dealing with them, so that humor can provide real nourishment for human spiritual life.

It is said that people born in spring and summer tend to be optimistic, while those born in autumn and winter tend to be pessimistic. These times are related to constellations. I haven't studied them. But judging from the month when I was born, laziness is consistent. October and autumn are crisp and suitable for sleeping.

Humor has nothing to do with diligence and laziness. Nothing to do with cleverness or dullness. It has something to do with mentality. Only when you are calm can you have a peaceful mind; Easily, you have the extra ability to experience humor. At least when you know where you are, put down your fears and be humorous. Otherwise, what's the difference between telling jokes and worrying? Laughing is worse than crying.

I think humor is different from satire, ridicule, ridicule and so on. Broadly speaking, anything that makes people laugh counts. But a breakdown, a little humorous, should belong to the kind of "knowing smile". As meredith said.

What is the relationship between humor and talent? Most people who write serious articles, such as Old Master Q, are humorous.

In the afternoon, the leaves asked ...

Just part-time, make a living, sauce purple ~ ~ ~ said:

Wow, how can people be humorous? Big problem, is there any way?

Lonely no one can see, blue sea flying golden mirror, enjoy this evening. Say:

Humor is human nature. Haha, like me, I am always humorous.

Just part-time, make a living, arrogant and impetuous, calm ~ ~ ~ said:

Sweat can be cultivated. Khan, there is no way. . .

Lonely no one can see, blue sea flying golden mirror, enjoy this evening. Say:

Yes, read more Mark Twain's works and experience more flavors in life. Naturally, you are open-minded and humorous. China's views on Lin Yutang and Liang Shiqiu. Li Ao is bitter, not humorous. Poplar is more exaggerated, and it is inevitable to draw tigers if you watch too much. Lu Xun's humor is secretive and serious, and few young people will appreciate it. Most of his humor is in line with that era.

Just part-time, make a living, arrogant and impetuous, calm ~ ~ ~ said:

Many people say that people in China don't understand humor.

Lonely no one can see, blue sea flying golden mirror, enjoy this evening. Say:

You can't say that. Chinese and western humor are different. China people's humor can only be appreciated under certain circumstances. Different regions have different understandings of humor. Just as southerners may not understand the humor of the northern duet.

Think about it later, there are historical reasons why China people don't understand humor, because China's orthodox literature can't tolerate humor. Some people say that people like Dong Fangshuo and Gao Mei are humorous, but they are the ancestors of Chinese funny, and they are not humorous. When Mr. Zhengdao was in power, he always took a contemptuous attitude towards humor. Even now, China people's nerves are slightly relaxed, and they still have prude genes. Always keep a straight face. Humor is gentle and detached, and at the same time, compassion is added, which is what the west calls humor. Humor is a gentle texture, without spikes. What Lu Xun has is a sharp dagger, not humor. Once a person faces the world with a straight face, his words and deeds will be unconsciously stabbed.

Humor with personal temperament must have the background of personal life and work. The person who "why not eat minced meat" has his/her humor. The biggest grievance is that the minced meat is not fragrant today, and the biggest humor is to ask people, since there is no food to eat, why not drink porridge?

Take my favorite Lin Yutang as an example. Although I struggled and had ideals, my six months in Wuhan completely destroyed Lin Yutang's thinking. Later, he said, "After that, there was another revolution. I was enthusiastic and dreaming, but the dream at this time probably won't last long. I will wake up if I have fun." When the revolution was successful, I couldn't even dream about it. At this time, my dream disappeared and I always slept until dawn every night. This is probably because of a person's age. The older you get, the less you dream. Life is always the road from idealism to realism. As the saying goes, women love money, girls love beauty, money is realism and beauty is idealism. This is all because the relationship between the old and the young is different. "

Lin believes that "the humor of vertical and horizontal discussion is based on Zhuang, and the poetic humor started from Tao Wei. Probably Zhuangzi is masculine humor, and Tao Qian is feminine humor, which stems from the difference in temperament. China people don't understand the meaning of humor and think that humor must be irony, so they deliberately mark leisure humor to show its scope. "

The ancients were not without humor. Lao Tzu smiled bitterly, Zhuang Sheng laughed wildly, Lao Tzu's laughter was sharp, and Zhuang Sheng's laughter was unrestrained. Perhaps detachment tends to be cynical and world-weary, and when it comes to anger and jealousy, it loses its humorous and gentle purpose. When Confucius lived in Yanju, he laughed with a sigh, while Mencius laughed with a sense of humor-so much so that it was later compiled into a poem: "When did beggars have two wives, and neighbors couldn't keep many chickens?" Why do you talk about Wei Qi when there is a fashion? "

Lin thinks that Confucius is gentle and stern, close to a real humorous attitude. I don't think so. Confucius wanted to be upright and upright, and he stuck to his name. Later, Confucianism became more and more sour.

Intellectuals in China are lofty and don't allow others to tell them what to do. Men of letters tend to despise one another On the other hand, it can be seen that the current social status of China literati, although much worse than that of the imperial examination era, has greatly improved compared with 10 years ago. However, their life has not yet reached the level of western society, and there are still many mental shackles. For them, humor is still humor and irony. Especially talented literati.

The technique of "implicit judgment" in humor can best reflect the characteristics of "leaving a aftertaste" The technique of "suggestive judgment" has a strong sense of humor because of its implication, hidden sharpness, inextricable connection between superficial views and actual views, and a large gap, which often appears ridiculous under the contrast between reality and reality. One night, john wilkes, a British politician, had dinner with the Earl of Sandwich at the famous steakhouse in London. After three glasses of wine, the earl of sandwich joked with john wilkes drunkenly, "I often think that you will die of smallpox or be hanged." Wilkes immediately hit back and said, "My count, that depends on whether I like the countess or the count."

"Implicit judgment", humor is humor. It is not a glance, but a space for thinking. This space is full of fun and enthusiasm. Mr. John sat in the carriage and politely asked a lady sitting next to him, "May I smoke?" The lady replied politely, "You feel at home!" Mr. John had to put the cigarette case back in his pocket and said with a sigh, "I still can't smoke."

"Implicit judgment" is a kind of euphemistic expression skill, which can help you directly say what you don't want to say, so that the obedient party can understand the hidden meaning after making extended or in-depth judgment.

In an upscale restaurant, a customer sat at the dining table and tied a napkin around his neck untimely. The manager of the restaurant was disgusted and called a waiter and said, you should let this gentleman know that our restaurant is not allowed, but try to be gentle and tactful. The waiter accepted the task, went to the customer's table and asked politely, "Sir, do you want a shave or a haircut?" The customer paused and immediately understood the meaning of the waiter. He smiled shyly and took off his napkin.

"Implicit judgment" expresses opinions and humor through "concealment". There is something hidden in the dew, and there is something hidden in the hermit. Once the judgment is inferred, the real intention can be found. If you hide it too closely and too deeply, the humorous effect will disappear. Therefore, when using this technique, we must pay attention to the degree of concealment, so that people can immediately make judgments and draw conclusions after a short period of thinking.

Once, President Kennedy's father Joseph praised his granddaughter Caroline to Kennedy: "Caroline is really smart. She is much smarter than when she was your age, Jack! " Kennedy said without weakness, "Yes, she is very smart. That depends on who her father is! "

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Humor is the embodiment of great wisdom. It often evaluates characters in a unique perspective and way, reflects social life, and makes people understand the author's intentions easily and happily. Humorous language is concise; The idea is ingenious and natural, and the effect produced by these techniques is quick and direct. Because it is short and pithy, it is very popular with readers. Humor can be said to be the most exquisite example whether it is thinking training or writing teaching. Long-term exposure to humor can form a certain "humorous thinking." Humorous thinking is a high-order thinking form, which is good at thinking and expressing problems from angles that ordinary people can't think of. Let's talk about the relationship between humor and writing thinking training from three aspects. First, humor and language thinking training

1. Interpretation of humorous rhetoric

Exercise (1): Read this humor and then answer this question.

In an imperial examination in the late Qing Dynasty, a candidate wrote at the end of the paper: "I am Li Hongzhang's wife." He mistook "relatives" for "wives". The marking teacher approved: "Never dare to marry!"

"Never dare to marry!" There are two meanings, one is that the candidate is so afraid, and the other is that the candidate is,

So I dare not.

See: China Jilin .. Jiao Yu/doc/2005-09-29/2778.htm.

On formal occasions, the harmonious use of Zhuang Ci is a better way of humor.

However, it is useless to talk about skills. What matters is improvisation, improvisation. "Implicit judgment", humor is humor. It is not a glance, but a space for thinking. This space is full of fun and enthusiasm. Mr. John sat in the carriage and politely asked a lady sitting next to him, "May I smoke?" The lady replied politely, "You feel at home!" Mr. John had to put the cigarette case back in his pocket and said with a sigh, "I still can't smoke."

"Implicit judgment" is a kind of euphemistic expression skill, which can help you directly say what you don't want to say, so that the obedient party can understand the hidden meaning after making extended or in-depth judgment.

In an upscale restaurant, a customer sat at the dining table and tied a napkin around his neck untimely. The manager of the restaurant was disgusted and called a waiter and said, you should let this gentleman know that our restaurant is not allowed, but try to be gentle and tactful. The waiter accepted the task, went to the customer's table and asked politely, "Sir, do you want a shave or a haircut?" The customer paused and immediately understood the meaning of the waiter. He smiled shyly and took off his napkin.

"Implicit judgment" expresses opinions and humor through "concealment". There is something hidden in the dew, and there is something hidden in the hermit. Once the judgment is inferred, the real intention can be found. If you hide it too closely and too deeply, the humorous effect will disappear. Therefore, when using this technique, we must pay attention to the degree of concealment, so that people can immediately make judgments and draw conclusions after a short period of thinking.

Once, President Kennedy's father Joseph praised his granddaughter Caroline to Kennedy: "Caroline is really smart. She is much smarter than when she was your age, Jack! " Kennedy said without weakness, "Yes, she is very smart. That depends on who her father is! "

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Humor is the embodiment of great wisdom. It often evaluates characters in a unique perspective and way, reflects social life, and makes people understand the author's intentions easily and happily. Humorous language is concise; The idea is ingenious and natural, and the effect produced by these techniques is quick and direct. Because it is short and pithy, it is very popular with readers. Humor can be said to be the most exquisite example whether it is thinking training or writing teaching. Long-term exposure to humor can form a certain "humorous thinking." Humorous thinking is a high-order thinking form, which is good at thinking and expressing problems from angles that ordinary people can't think of. Let's talk about the relationship between humor and writing thinking training from three aspects. First, humor and language thinking training

1. Interpretation of humorous rhetoric

Exercise (1): Read this humor and then answer this question.

In an imperial examination in the late Qing Dynasty, a candidate wrote at the end of the paper: "I am Li Hongzhang's wife." He mistook "relatives" for "wives". The marking teacher approved: "Never dare to marry!"

"Never dare to marry!" There are two meanings, one is that the candidate is so afraid, and the other is that the candidate is,

So I dare not.

See: China Jilin .. Jiao Yu/doc/2005-09-29/2778.htm.

On formal occasions, the harmonious use of Zhuang Ci is a better way of humor.

However, it is useless to talk about skills. What matters is improvisation, improvisation.

How can I become a person with a sense of humor? It should be much better to read more jokes and see what some humorous people say.

How can I be a humorous, generous and cheerful boy? I'm not a boy, so I can only speak from my perspective. You said you were the most interesting boy, right? Hope belongs to the kind who knows when to be humorous and when not to be humorous. Always be humorous, such as comforting others, making others angry, or making others happy. . You can joke occasionally, but in moderation. As for generosity, first of all, don't care too much about what you say about your female classmates. You can laugh at a little joke and even go along with it. Of course, you can't fully admit it, otherwise it would be too fake. . If you think being angry is a joke, don't walk away politely. Your face should be cold. At first glance, it seems that you are in a bad mood, but you are not very angry, otherwise you will become stingy. If she (they) comes to apologize, you can accept it. If she doesn't come, stay away from them. It will be over in a few days. If those female students have self-knowledge, they won't bother you again in a short time. If not, stay away from her first. However, in their hearts, they should think you are generous.

Do you know how to be a person with a sense of humor? 1, has a good emotional understanding ability, that is, emotional intelligence. In life, what we need to pay attention to is caring for others. Empathy is the first step of a sense of humor. This requires that we can't always say things by attacking others or taking advantage of others' unhappiness. We should grasp the sense of proportion, grasp the temperament, be just right, and please others at the same time.

2. Bite your point of view and don't relax. Don't talk to others in the same way. Cultivate the ability to explain phenomena. Some people have no sense of humor because they think nothing, but those who preach all day have no sense of humor. For example, when two people are arguing about a certain point of view, especially when what they are arguing about is actually meaningless, then you can prove your point of view in a more playful way.

3. Self-mockery is also a kind of humor. I have a question in his lecture that I have always kept in mind. He said that the girl he liked in college didn't like him. She had a boyfriend, but that girl often asked her to carry water. Because I liked others, there was naturally room for hospitality. Later, Yu asked the girl why she didn't ask her boyfriend for help, but asked him for help. The girl replied, "Because I want my boyfriend to have a good rest." There may not be the last paragraph, but I laughed at myself and won everyone's smile.

4. Being a "black" person Sometimes we find that people with a sense of humor are "black" people most of the time. Of course, this is a commendatory term, that is, making fun of others properly can adjust the atmosphere and promote interpersonal relationships (in fact, the cocktail effect tells us that at cocktail parties, we usually pay attention to information related to ourselves selectively, even bad information).

How can I become a humorous person? First of all, learn to understand the humor of others. Can associate, associate interesting things with other people's words. I recommend watching more funny movies in the north. The jingle in it is very interesting. Finally, I wish you a humorous person.

Keep yourself happy, learn to be happy, learn to smile and be happy from the heart first. Only by making yourself happy first, can you speak with a little happiness, so that you don't have to pretend to be humorous, and you can't help but be humorous from the heart, and people around you will be happier!

Contact more humorous things, I believe you can become a more humorous person. Generally speaking, open-minded people are optimistic. Optimistic and contented people laugh a lot, and naturally there will be a basis for humor.

How can you become an outgoing and cheerful person, how can you become humorous, learn to love everything around you and everyone, and learn to love life, and you will become cheerful.

I used to be severely autistic, but later I learned to love everything I did and my life, and I became cheerful.

Get along with everyone, don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, because everyone won't take it to heart, believe in yourself ~