Have money and no money to go home for the New Year?

Some people don't go home for the Spring Festival for many years, and they should be divided into several kinds of psychology:

Spring Festival is one of the traditional festivals in China. People who are far away from home will go back for the Spring Festival. The Spring Festival is a time for people to get together. But in rural areas, some people don't go home for the New Year for many years. What kind of psychology is this?

First, I can't mix well and dare not go back.

Some people are far away from home, so they make big plans when they go out to work, and promise the villagers that they must make a lot of money and get along well before going back. It turned out to be counterproductive. I don't get along well outside, so I dare not go back for fear of being laughed at and pointed at.

Second, I am too busy at work to have time.

Some people are still working during the Spring Festival, perhaps not because they want to make money, but because they are arranged by their superiors. There is no way.

Or there are some people with special jobs, who have to work all year round, and there are almost no holidays, such as border guards or comrades who stick to the front line. They also want to go back, but the work department doesn't allow it, so they really don't have time to go back.

Third, forced marriage

In rural areas, as soon as the Spring Festival arrives, the family will arrange for young people of school age to go on blind dates. Today is like this, tomorrow is like that. I've been nagging in your ear. Why haven't you found someone yet? You can make your own decisions about lifelong events. Where can outsiders make decisions?

Fourth, all kinds of questions from relatives.

After the Spring Festival, seven aunts and eight aunts will get together to ask you questions. If you are a student, you will be asked how your grades are. Where to study? If you go out to work, you will be asked what your salary is. If you are not married, you will be asked if you are seeing someone.

In short, except at home, you will be questioned by your neighbors and relatives as soon as you go out.

Five, hate the wind of mutual comparison.

It is inevitable to attend various parties during the Spring Festival, but now rural parties have long gone stale. They are no longer a simple gathering to recall good times and talk about friendship and family ties, but a gathering for everyone to keep up with each other. Rich people ridicule those who have no money, and those who have no money don't want to get together again.