Parents have only been matchmakers once in their lives.

My parents only worked as matchmakers for others once in their lives.

Whenever I mention this, my mother will say sadly, "I killed my best friend!" " Dad will also say, "I found a good wife for my best friend." "

I didn't understand it until my mother told me about it.

It turns out that my mother's best friend Zhang Yi and she are in the same hospital and department. Because they are similar in age, they usually get along well.

Dad's best friend Li Shu and Dad are comrades-in-arms and good friends who talk about everything.

I was very young at that time, less than one year old. One day, my father and Li Shu went to Shandong on business and passed by the place where my mother worked. It was Sunday. Mom and Zhang Yi were washing clothes by the pool. Dad took Li Shu to the hospital to see his mother.

Li Ruya, height 176 cm, thin and tall, is even more handsome in an army.

Aunt Zhang has fair skin, phoenix eyes and fine eyes. 165 cm She is slim with two black big braid tied behind her. She is really liked at first sight. She is a very beautiful girl.

Dad found that the two men were well matched, so he asked his mother to match Li Shu. My mother disagreed at that time and said, "Why are you all looking for soldiers?" I wasn't there when I needed you, and I couldn't count on it. "I can hold my father for a long time, and my mother is still with Zhang Yimei. Two people are really predestined friends and are very satisfied with each other. From then on, they wrote to each other to get to know each other better, and got married 1 year later.

After marriage, Li Shu was very kind to Zhang Yi. In my mother's words, as long as Zhang Yi comes to visit relatives, the unit will leave the food to his wife. At that time, materials were scarce. An apple, some sweets and an egg are all good things, and he will buy them for his wife with his own money. My mother is careful and kind to my wife, and often compares Li Shu with my father, which has become a reason to scold my father!

Li Shu and Zhang Yi fell in love for five years and gave birth to a daughter and a son. The two have separated and actually lived together for less than a year, but their lives are very happy.

In the sixth year, Li Shu took part in some sports all over the country. The army asked him to be transferred to another place. He said, "Let me go, please. I must find out my problem. If I have no problem, I can't carry it! "

In this way, the troops persisted for more than two months without paying wages. And one day, I won't leave the army until I understand this problem!

One day, people in the same dormitory found him in the toilet for a long time and didn't come out. They opened the door and found him lying on the ground. They rushed him to the hospital. It turned out to be a cerebral hemorrhage. After first aid, people were rescued and understood things, but they could not move or talk. Only the eyes will move and the mouth will make a vague sound.

I remember that summer, my father asked me to send them fans. I was still very young. Aunt Zhang teased me: "Girl, does your father still drink?" "Drink!" "Do they quarrel?" "quarrel!" "How noisy is it?" I follow my parents' example. At that time, Li Shu was lying in bed laughing with him. Laughter makes me feel a little scared, because the voice I am familiar with is not like this. I am sad and scared!

The question of Li Shu has finally been clarified and solved. Later, my father was transferred from his original unit for work reasons. After my dad was transferred, they stayed in the same place, and the two families kept writing to each other and never broke contact.

My father sometimes passes by them on business and visits them. Aunt Zhang will tell Dad that Uncle Li is wrong and Uncle Li will laugh.

Dad hasn't been back to the northeast to see them for two years. When he sees Li Shu again, he will ignore his father, listen to his jokes and laugh with his father.

Li Shu lay for 23 years and left at the end of the year.

Mother often says, "I really regret introducing your aunt Zhang to your uncle Li." My best friend has been suffering all his life. " . I haven't had a bedsore for 23 years, and I have to take care of two children. How hard is it every day? I regret it! "At this time, my father will definitely say," I don't regret it. Everyone in the team said that I found a good wife for Xiao Li! " At this time, my mother's voice will increase by 8 degrees: "You men are so selfish! How did Xiao Zhang spend his life? " Mom's tone is full of anger and there are tears in her eyes!

For this reason, my parents never played matchmaker for anyone again.

I didn't understand the meaning of a bedsore before, until my parents' illness gave me a deep understanding of it, which meant getting up several times every night to turn over for the patient; Is to wipe the patient's body every day and keep it clean; Is to massage the patient every day; It means physical and mental exhaustion every day. 23 years, what kind of persistence is this?

In the 28th year of separation, she came to my house for a few days at the invitation of her mother. When I first saw her, I couldn't relate to the beautiful girl with big eyes when I was a child. Time has changed a person!

Aunt Zhang has changed from a beautiful girl to an old lady I don't know. The wrinkled and slightly hunched old lady in front of me is my beautiful aunt Zhang.

Mom and she cried bitterly, and I understood her difficulties from her crying! Her children are all grown up and have good jobs after being admitted to the university. My daughter could have stayed in school to teach, but she felt that her mother had suffered too much all her life and decided to go back to her.

Now that my parents are gone, I occasionally talk to Aunt Zhang on the phone, just like my mother. Her voice was calm and reassuring.

I sincerely wish Aunt Zhang happiness in the future! Wish you all the best! Ruyi!