How to choose tea ceremony?

In our country, social etiquette is inseparable from tea culture, and many young people may have had the same embarrassing behavior as me. Because I don't know the tea ceremony, I'm often prone to make jokes, or I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing and doing nothing. If you don't want to be passive and embarrassed in social activities because you don't know the tea ceremony, it is necessary to suggest young friends to memorize these "seven tea ceremonies" so that they can behave appropriately and be polite when drinking tea socially.

1. Knocking ceremony

When someone pours you tea, it is a polite feedback to express gratitude by holding hands tightly. If it is an elder, leader or customer who pours tea for you, tap the table with your fingers three times, lightly, so as not to damage the tea set. If you are a colleague, such as a colleague or friend, pour you tea, and tap the desktop twice with your index finger and middle finger together. If the younger generation pours tea for you, just tap the desktop with your index finger. Note that it can only be your index finger.

2. Tea pouring order

When friends and relatives drink tea together, they should grow up first, then the oldest, then the peers and the younger generation. In the same generation, they should be arranged by seniority. Suppose you have tea with your boss and clients? Here we should take the customer first, then pour it to the customer, then pour it to the boss, and finally pour it to ourselves.

3. New customers and new tea

What if you are having tea with a friend, just had the second bubble, and another friend comes? At this time, don't be reluctant to part with the delicious taste of this second bubble, pour out the tea leaves, put on new tea, and iron new cups for the latecomers to show their respect.

4. Tea, three cups and four cups

Business socializing, choosing places and ways, are all for efficient communication. Remember that three people make tea and four people make wine. Three people drink tea, which is not convenient for cloth tea, and the taste is relatively uniform. For four people, the quiet tea-drinking atmosphere is not suitable for business communication, so they can drink.

5. Tea is full of deception

As the saying goes, "tea should be filled with more than half of wine." When pouring wine for others, fill the glass. And pour tea for others, remember to pour only seven points full. If a small cup of tea is too full, it is not easy to cool the tea soup to the entrance temperature, and it is easy to burn the other side, which is regarded as "talk of deceiving others."

Behave calmly and steadily.

Whether you pour someone else's tea or drink someone else's tea, you should move slowly, quietly and steadily. Tea sets can't make a tinkling sound, which makes them look flustered and impolite. For an educated person, making a loud noise when putting down the teacup is a provocation to the host.

7. Pay attention to what you say.

Once I visited a customer with the leader, and had a good chat in the afternoon. A pot of Pu 'er was brewed repeatedly. When I thought today's talk was smooth and I could make better progress, the leader motioned me to leave. Later, the leader told me that the tea soup was colorless and the customer didn't mean to change tea, which meant that the conversation was over and I didn't want to talk about it any more. It is polite to drive away the guests without changing the tea. In this case, there is no need to ask more questions.