"If you have money, it is a joke not to marry him." Phoenix man pushes his luck. Should girls break up?

You Man is a 32-year-old businesswoman who owns her own company. Seven years ago, five days before the wedding, Yu Man's fiance died in an accident. She couldn't accept this reality and closed herself up for several years. During this period, she dared not touch her feelings again, fearing that she would be hurt again, and simply put her mind on her work.

Many things happen. Yu Man has accumulated enough experience to start his own company, and it works well. After all these years, Yu Man has always been alone. Her parents love her dearly and always want to arrange marriage for her. She introduced several men, but she never fell in love with Yu Man.

Once Yu Man went to the bank to do business, and she was too busy to count the days, which happened to be her physiological period. After waiting for more than half an hour to finish the business, she felt something was wrong when she stood up from her chair. Just when she was at a loss, a male shop assistant came over and handed her a coat, signaling her to block it around her waist.

Yu Man was very grateful to him and took the initiative to ask for his contact information, saying that he would send his coat back later. This man is Yu Man's boyfriend. As for the latter things, it is very cliche to develop step by step. Yu Man returned her coat, her boyfriend invited her to dinner, and then started dating.

The relationship between the two people has developed rapidly. Yu Man has been single for so many years. Of course, I hope someone can feel sorry for themselves. I just met such a gentle and considerate boyfriend, and soon they fell in love. At first, Yu Man was vaguely worried that he was three years older than his boyfriend and would have ideological differences. After being together, she doesn't have to worry about this problem at all.

Boyfriend knows her mind very well, and will be considerate of her no matter what, which makes Yu Man feel relaxed with him. My boyfriend is high flyers from a famous university. After graduation, he had a good development opportunity in other places. However, he felt that it was not easy for his parents to work hard to raise themselves. In order to be closer to his parents, he chose to go back to his hometown and work in a bank.

Yu Man is not young, and her parents are anxious to hurry them to get married. It's just that this boyfriend's family conditions are too general. He can't afford a house or a car. Yu Man doesn't care. She has her own house. The house she bought three years ago was decorated according to her own preferences. If she wants to get married now, it can also be a wedding room.

After a year of contact, both families are urging marriage. When talking about marriage, Yu Man was considerate of her boyfriend's family conditions and only symbolically asked for a bride price of 30,000 yuan. According to their local customs, the minimum bride price is 60 thousand. Yu Man earns a lot of money, and she doesn't care much about these stereotypes.

The wedding date and everything were settled, and the two began to prepare for the wedding. Just a few days before the wedding, my husband's family suddenly said that 30 thousand bride price would not be given. Yu Man thought that her husband's family had encountered some difficulties. The prospective mother-in-law explained that once married, it is a family, and our money will be yours in the future. Why do you still care about these manners?

Although Yu Man doesn't care about the tens of thousands of dollars, it's still hard to hear her mother-in-law say so. How can she marry a daughter-in-law and not give a bride price? But on the other hand, think about it. Getting married soon, there is no shortage of tens of thousands of dollars.

Three or four days before the wedding, my mother-in-law's family put forward a wonderful condition: more money to marry, at least more than 500 thousand. With money, married life is better. The mother-in-law's statement is that you have money anyway, and less dowry will make people laugh.

Yu Man was puzzled. She asked directly: a small dowry will make people laugh, but won't you make people laugh if you don't give a bride price? Other people's daughters-in-law are given as bride price. How can it be turned upside down when I get married? At this time, her obedient boyfriend seems to have suddenly changed. He whispered to Yu Man, isn't this for our future?

At this time, Yu Manquan understood that her boyfriend's family was framing herself step by step. First, she doesn't have the money to buy a house, and regards it as a wedding room. Then he said that he had no money for the bride price, and now the wedding would be held in a few days. Suddenly the lion proposed to her.

Yu Man knew that her husband's family was convinced that she was too old to break off an engagement, and the love she finally met would not give up easily. The wedding date has been set and the invitation has been sent out. At this time, if your marriage breaks down, it will definitely make your relatives and friends laugh. It seems that my boyfriend's wishful thinking is good. It's a pity that they underestimated Yu Man, who has worked hard for so many years, and Yu Man is not a lamb to be slaughtered.

Without hesitation, Yu Man immediately announced that the marriage was unmarried. Boyfriend thought Yu Man was joking, until Yu Man called relatives and friends one by one to inform them that the wedding was cancelled. Boyfriend's family panicked. I wanted to marry a daughter-in-law who didn't want to return the bride price, but the cooked duck flew away.

Later, no matter how her boyfriend apologized, Yuman never looked back. It is a disaster for such a family to marry in the past.

After this incident, Yuman understood that older women are not terrible, and high-quality singles are more desirable than making do with marriage. As a woman, you must take a good look at the character of your husband's family before marriage, or you will suffer after marriage.