Is it right for a mother-in-law to not help take care of her grandchildren, but to ask her grandchildren to take care of her in the future?

There should be many people like this around us now. When a daughter-in-law needs help from her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law always says that it is your own child and she has no obligation to help you take care of it, or else she says she has backache and leg pain, but You see, she is obviously alive and kicking and healthier than you, but people just say that she is not feeling well, and your filial husband will only say that you can take care of her yourself.

I believe that many women who are mothers have experienced confinement hatred. That is, during confinement, they may hate their mother-in-law, because many times, many conflicts are left over from confinement. , but the originally filial and generous daughter-in-law changed after confinement. Why is this? This is because during the confinement period, when the daughter-in-law was most in need of help, most helpless, and most confused, her mother-in-law did not help her, and she began to see her mother-in-law clearly.

When she was out of confinement, her mother-in-law went back to playing mahjong and dancing. She never said that she would help her take care of her children. She wanted to go to work and earn more money for her children. A good living environment, but my mother-in-law was unwilling. She said she felt uncomfortable, she said she needed to do housework, and she had no time to help take care of the children.

Sometimes it is like this. My mother-in-law is enjoying herself while I am tired. However, when my mother-in-law gets old, she demands that I must honor her, and my husband also demands that he be undressed when his mother is sick. To serve his old mother, he felt that this was a matter of course.

Their family all thinks that you should serve them. They think that marrying you is not only to carry on the family line, but also to provide for them in their old age. But why do you get nothing from them?

Xiao Ke now thinks that if his parents-in-law are not good to him, then Xiao Ke should be good to his parents and honor his parents. His parents-in-law have not raised him for a day, and have not helped Xiao Ke once. Why should you serve them?