In marriage, are only women who are not financially independent afraid of divorce?

Today I will tell you why in marriage, only women who are not financially independent are afraid of divorce? Marriage attracts a woman's heart like a bright cold drink in summer, but after she truly tastes that drink, she realizes that the bright appearance may hide bitterness and invisible coldness. Qiong Yao said in "Shuiyunjian": "A failed marriage is a tragedy. Ending a tragedy is like starting a comedy. But how many women are like frogs in warm water in marriage. Even if they know that the water temperature is slowly soaring, they have no courage. Jump out. Even if there is no love in the marriage, women may be unwilling to divorce for various reasons, have expectations for men, or do not want their children to lose a healthy family. Women are always gentle and unwarranted for the sake of their own hearts.

Too many women are very soft-hearted and always hope to give their children the best, and can endure everything for themselves for the sake of their children's happiness. When she was happy or even in pain, she could think about divorce countless times, but every time she thought of seeing her child, she couldn't bear it. She instinctively felt that the child needed a mother and a father. She didn't want the child to be broken. When her family grows up, she does not want her children to accept someone else as their father or mother. No matter how unfortunate she is, she will not divorce.

A woman who chooses not to divorce for the sake of her children is also a great sacrifice. Meaningful. Sometimes an unhappy family hurts a child as much as an incomplete family. Children who grow up in such a family do not receive enough love and will easily develop feelings of inferiority and insecurity when they grow up, so they cannot be independent. She didn't dare to leave the man. After getting married, she met a neighbor who had never been a full-time housewife. No matter how wealthy her family was, it was much better than many families.

For this reason, she asked her husband if he didn't want to be a full-time wife. She ignored her answer and said she could just get divorced. At that moment, she shed tears unconsciously. For a long time, she missed everything. She also thought about getting divorced and living on her own in the future, but she didn't have the courage. She is very unfamiliar with the outside world and does not know how to support herself. If her husband continues to love her, she may never want to be with her again. Even if the divorce rate is really high in this era, divorce is no longer a shame. What a rare thing, but there are still so many women who can't get over it and feel that divorce is a shameful thing. In her opinion, no matter how successful her career is, if she gets divorced, she will become a failure. I feel that if I become a divorced woman, people around me will look at my jokes with strange eyes. Then I will be devalued, have no value, and no one will love me anymore. Disclaimer: Some of the pictures in this article are from the Internet. The data and related materials marked with the source are all original copyrights. Please indicate the source and author when reprinting.