What kind of woman do men like the most?

Many women often fail to know how to get along with men in love.

Either they are too humble and fragile, compromising everywhere, making some men with imperfect character feel weak and bullied;

Or they are too tough and brutal, always wanting to control the other person and make men I feel too stressed and out of breath.

However, a woman who truly fascinates men must have mature skills in getting along, which can not only keep men respectful, but also make them feel happy and unable to leave.

If you also want to achieve the above-mentioned realm, you have to clearly understand that these types of women are what men like and need the most.

01.

An independent and mysterious woman

My cousin-in-law turned out to be a housewife. She did housework at home every day, but she always felt that her cousin didn't care about her. .

During the process, she tried many methods to verify this, such as deliberately not contacting her for a long time, but her cousin didn't notice anything was wrong. Instead, she said: "What's weird? What could happen at home?" Or She specifically wanted to buy some clothes to attract her husband's attention, but her cousin just answered mechanically: "I'll give you the money later."

None of her actions were to attract her cousin's attention, but she got The cousin's feedback made her cousin very chilled and she didn't know what was wrong with the marriage.

As my nephew went to school, my cousin-in-law found a job in foreign trade. Occasionally she had the opportunity to go on business trips to Europe, the United States and other places, and her clothes and temperament improved a lot.

But what’s even more unexpected is that her cousin’s attitude has changed 180 degrees. Not only does he often call her to ask about her situation, he sometimes even buys her nice clothes and shoes in person. , saying that he hopes his wife will dress nicely for work.

Subsequently, previous problems and conflicts were instantly resolved.

Later, the cousin realized that it was not that his cousin didn’t care about his wife before, but that he had lost his sense of mystery at home every day. He couldn’t imagine what kind of changes his wife would have.

In other words, the better a woman is, the more she can attract men's attention.

If all of a woman’s personal belongings are products purchased with a man’s money, he will only see her own contribution and will not feel the charm of a woman’s gorgeous clothes; on the contrary, when a woman uses her When money demonstrates taste, men can break away from the frame of money and see women's abilities and personality traits.

02.

Show weakness appropriately and be a "kitten" woman

I have a college roommate who has always been weak and weak since she was a student. The joke is that she will be blown away by the wind.

When she was about to get married, we were all worried that her personality would be too good and she would be bullied by her husband in the future. But we didn’t expect that now that they have been married for 8 years, her tough and tough husband, who is over 1.8 meters tall, will be able to control her. Obediently.

She is petite and some things are difficult to deal with. The first thing she thinks of is her husband.

For example, when she asks her husband to clean the range hood, or the courier delivers electrical assembly parts, etc., she will not show off in front of her husband and call him to deal with the problem.

After a long time, my husband took the initiative to deal with some things.

Even if the daily necessities of daily life such as firewood, rice, oil and salt are used up, my husband will take the initiative to buy these items for the family after seeing them.

This is not surprising in itself. The amazing thing is that her husband always responds immediately without delay. Even her son has learned to feel sorry for his mother and is eager to help her carry water.

On the other hand, those college classmates who once pinched their boyfriends’ ears turned into resentful women at the party, telling examples of disobedient husbands and children: food was not served even after being ordered several times, clothes were thrown away Got everywhere….

In recent years, "wild girlfriends" and "harsh wives" have been in power. On the one hand, they show the gentlemanly demeanor of boys, but on the other hand, women have also forgotten that using softness to overcome anger is the best magic weapon.

Men may succumb to the control of their girlfriends when they first fall in love, but in the long-term practice of life, women who act coquettishly are still the best. Show weakness appropriately and act like a "kitten". Inviting your husband to help is better than directly Complaining or yelling is more effective.

03.

A gentle, virtuous, and reasonable woman

A while ago, Fa Xiao and her husband had a divorce, which we all thought was irreversible. situation.

Later, the man said something: "Can you stop duplicity and be honest for once?

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We realized that it was actually nothing more than trivial matters, but we had developed habitual expressions since we were young, and this led to divorce.

Later, After everyone's persuasion, Faxiao finally calmed down and listened to the other party's thoughts, and reached a positive communication.

At first glance, it was not a big deal. Her husband still loved her very much, but he didn't understand what she expressed.

After changing the way of communication, the two walked out of the Civil Affairs Bureau hand in hand.

Everyone knows not to reason with women, but few women object. If you think about it, men need to be reasonable.

In fact, the reason why many couples' relationships become worse and worse is that men are used to their wives losing their temper and think that coaxing them is enough, instead of guessing the meaning behind it;

And women are unwilling to express themselves directly and always lose their temper in a roundabout way, causing men to misunderstand that she is being unreasonable.

A smart woman will not bury this emotional secret in her daily life. Lei will occasionally reason with men on an equal footing and be prepared to communicate without making any secrets.

The management of a relationship cannot be separated from the joint efforts of men and women. Performance is also gradually revealed under the guidance of women.

What men like most in life is nothing more than the above-mentioned women who finally learn to be independent, show weakness appropriately, and be reasonable. Having these qualities can help them reduce a lot of discomfort. The necessary pressure becomes the reason for them to stay for a lifetime.