Do you think Chinese weddings are more in line with the tradition of China people?

From ancient times to the present, getting married is a traditional custom in China, which has a great influence on China people. For China people, marriage is very important and sacred. Since marriage is certain, there are two forms of wedding, one is western-style and the other is Chinese. Many people choose Chinese style, which is more in line with the inheritance of traditional culture in China. So there are many sayings about Chinese weddings, paying attention to customs, geomantic omen and so on.

First, matters needing attention in holding Chinese ancient weddings

1. Candles are indispensable in Chinese weddings. In ancient times, there must be red candles in the bridal chamber. So in order to highlight the characteristics of Chinese weddings, we must prepare some candles, which is the most easily overlooked point in the layout details of Chinese weddings.

3. The traditional bed-making in China needs quilts with dragon and phoenix quilts, peony and mandarin ducks, covered with dates, peanuts, lotus seeds and longan. I also want to invite a lady, whose children are happy to make the bed and say some auspicious words when making the bed.

4. some dried fruits, fruits and snacks should be prepared in the new house of Chinese wedding: these can not only entertain guests, but also add a lot of festive atmosphere to the new house. Here, Bian Xiao has launched a Chinese wedding theme "Chinese Style", which can satisfy all the beautiful imaginations of Chinese weddings.

The most important thing in Chinese wedding is the wedding banquet, and the details of Chinese wedding banquet sometimes determine the quality of the whole wedding, so the wedding banquet is the most important one in the layout details of Chinese wedding. Since a Chinese wedding is to be held, when arranging the wedding table, the newlyweds must choose tableware with strong Chinese flavor. The color of tableware is preferably festive and warm red, and so are napkins.

Second, what should we pay attention to in Chinese weddings?

1. Time taboo

For a long time, people pay attention to auspicious days when they get married, and usually calculate the date of birth of the couple to determine the best day for the wedding. However, some people are not suitable for the wedding in this animal year, because some animals will avoid danger and be afraid of hurting the core monument of their lives. There are those who are about to get married, but unfortunately their immediate family members have passed away, so this year is not suitable for newlyweds to hold wedding ceremonies, because it is unlucky for those who will "risk their lives".

From ancient times to now, the older generation thinks that March and July of the lunar calendar are the most haunted days, which is not suitable for newcomers to get married, so it is best to avoid getting married in these two months. Also, don't hold a wedding in April, because people think that 4 stands for "death", which is very unlucky, so no matter where you are, you are forbidden to get married in the next month.

2. Location taboo

Marriage is not worth the wedding room, preparing wedding supplies and many other matters. However, the placement of the wedding bed is also very particular. The wedding bed must be placed against the wall, preferably near the sides. But the wedding bed should not be placed in front of the mirror or near the bathroom.

Marriage is festive, so it is necessary to put some auspicious items on the wedding bed, such as a pair of festive dolls, longan, red dates, lotus seeds, peanuts, lilies and so on. It means that husband and wife get along well for a hundred years and have a baby early.

3. Ritual taboos

Wedding pays attention to auspicious days, so sometimes weddings are crowded together, so if you meet another wedding convoy on the way to marry the bride, the two families must set off firecrackers or the matchmakers of both sides exchange flowers to resolve this joy.

In addition, the bride must cover the road with a red umbrella before going out. Usually, the matchmaker or lucky person takes this role until the bride gets on the wedding car and enters the man's house.

3. What are the customs of Chinese weddings?

Since it is a Chinese wedding, the choice of clothes must be a pure Chinese wedding dress. Special props such as sedan chair, brazier and red hijab, as well as scenes and makeup, should be prepared in advance to meet the Chinese wedding. Never look like a part of western-style wedding and a part of Chinese wedding, which will lead to neither fish nor fowl wedding and lose the elegance of Chinese wedding.

Two things that brides must remember when they go out: holding a red umbrella and crying. When the bride goes out, there must be a matchmaker, a close friend or a sister who holds up a red umbrella for the bride and scatters rice in the air on the way, which means "spreading branches and leaves". The bride's tears mean "cry, don't cry, don't send" The sadder you cry, the better. It's not appropriate not to cry, but it's worth noting that you can't cry when you get to the wedding banquet hotel or the groom's house.

Since it is a Chinese wedding, Chinese traditional wedding customs must not be lost. The bride should put on a red hijab and cross the threshold (not stepping on it), then cross the brazier and the groom to "worship heaven and earth". After the "worship of heaven and earth", even if the ceremony is completed, the bride is already a member of the groom's family and is sent to the bridal chamber to wait for the groom.